ankshuss Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 goes like this: no matter how long you wait for the sex with your spouse that never seems to come, without fail, he/she will want it immediately (hours, next morning, etc) after you've scratched the itch yourself.
DazedandConfused66 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I let her watch....I usually don't finish alone. Problem solved.
Lostgurl Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 goes like this: no matter how long you wait for the sex with your spouse that never seems to come, without fail, he/she will want it immediately (hours, next morning, etc) after you've scratched the itch yourself. I've been there lately. ALOT. It never fails.
Lostgurl Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I let her watch....I usually don't finish alone. Problem solved. Well, that would be nice. But it kind of makes it impossible when your partner downloads porn, and waits until he thinks you are asleep to take care of business.
Mustang Sally Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 It would seem to me that the "solution" to this problem would be.... .....to masturbate more frequently! That way, you get more frequent sex, AND solo O's, so EVERYBODY wins, no?
Author ankshuss Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 It would seem to me that the "solution" to this problem would be.... .....to masturbate more frequently! That way, you get more frequent sex, AND solo O's, so EVERYBODY wins, no? yeah, except it just isn't as much fun if you just soloed. Last week for example, it had been a week. I take a shower. Soap it up, come out cleaner and happier. Get in bed. Boom! She wants it. why god why?!
Mustang Sally Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Who the f*ck knows, man? But I just read your other thread, so I'd say, just be happy that she does, indeed, finally want it, capiche?
Deanster Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 If only this were the case... I'd be the happiest man alive!
figleaf Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Dazedandconfused66 - Great solution! Might have to try that
NocturnalRaids Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Maybe express this frustration in a lighthearted way? If you tell her, then maybe ask if you can let her know when your on the verge of doin it yourself. Or set up some kind of schedule? Whatever works.
White Flower Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 goes like this: no matter how long you wait for the sex with your spouse that never seems to come, without fail, he/she will want it immediately (hours, next morning, etc) after you've scratched the itch yourself. Amen! It's like you release extra pheramones* and they crave you when you're ready to crash!
DazedandConfused66 Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Well, that would be nice. But it kind of makes it impossible when your partner downloads porn, and waits until he thinks you are asleep to take care of business. Intervention? If he's using porn to satisfy his needs, and not meeting yours, I'd be hacking the router to cut off all inet access after 10PM....and replacing it with a big HTML page that says "Free sex upstairs!!!"
Saxis Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Intervention? If he's using porn to satisfy his needs, and not meeting yours, I'd be hacking the router to cut off all inet access after 10PM....and replacing it with a big HTML page that says "Free sex upstairs!!!" :lmao: I could soooo see myself doing that.
White Flower Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Intervention? If he's using porn to satisfy his needs, and not meeting yours, I'd be hacking the router to cut off all inet access after 10PM....and replacing it with a big HTML page that says "Free sex upstairs!!!" Ha ha ha! I love it!
Meaplus3 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 goes like this: no matter how long you wait for the sex with your spouse that never seems to come, without fail, he/she will want it immediately (hours, next morning, etc) after you've scratched the itch yourself. Ok well now let's just say you get plenty of sex with the w. I thought that most men just enjoyed masterbation from time to time anyway? Is that true or am I wrong? AP:)
Author ankshuss Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 since we're thinking hypothetically, sure I'd still do it, even if I got sex more than once a week or once every other week. sometimes it's the only thing that'll get me to sleep.
Meaplus3 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 since we're thinking hypothetically, sure I'd still do it, even if I got sex more than once a week or once every other week. sometimes it's the only thing that'll get me to sleep. Well I have heard the response from my H!:)What is it anyway with men. sex and sleep?? AP:)
DazedandConfused66 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Well I have heard the response from my H!:)What is it anyway with men. sex and sleep?? AP:) For men, ejaculation releases endorphins which makes us temporarily sleepy. Something to do with evolution I think, allowing the women-folk to quickly crawl away once the deed is done to allow for proper fertilization.
Meaplus3 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 For men, ejaculation releases endorphins which makes us temporarily sleepy. Something to do with evolution I think, allowing the women-folk to quickly crawl away once the deed is done to allow for proper fertilization. OK then! Thank's.
Author ankshuss Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Aside from evolution, it's also just a nice way to release tension.
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