Jane T Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I was out to dinner with the guy I like and his ex fwb (they had a thing 6-7 yrs ago for a few months). Well, over dinner he was explaining how a girl . . . injured him with a couple of well placed kicks after he was talking bad about her behind her back. It was so bad he passed out and his parents had to take him to the doctor the next morning. Well, apparently one of his friends is now "wormy," and he says that ever since then he becomes a completely different person in bed, and he really can't control it. Then he looked at me for a long time. This guy knows I'm a virgin. So, here's my questions: 1) What was his motivation for saying this? 2) Can that even happen (one of your boys gets crushed so you become a wild man in bed)? 3) Should I be completely afraid to ever sleep with this guy/lose my virginity to him? I don't wanna die, lol. It's not something that's really a possibility until 6 months to a year from when/if we start going out, but I'm just curious.
jerbear Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 This guy knows I'm a virgin. Good challenge? 1) What was his motivation for saying this? A challenge to convert a virgin, a conquest. Guys like that. 2) Can that even happen (one of your boys gets crushed so you become a wild man in bed)? Possible. 3) Should I be completely afraid to ever sleep with this guy/lose my virginity to him? I don't wanna die, lol. It's not something that's really a possibility until 6 months to a year from when/if we start going out, but I'm just curious. Take it very slow, depending on your age and desires, take it very slow. You would remember him for a very long time as the first.
compassion42 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Sounds to me like he was just telling a story. I wouldn't take it as a hint about the two of you sleeping together. It is strange though-never heard of such a thing. Also be careful-if this guy was saying such bad things about that girl behind her back-who's to say he won't do that again.
Author Jane T Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 Sounds to me like he was just telling a story. I wouldn't take it as a hint about the two of you sleeping together. It is strange though-never heard of such a thing. Also be careful-if this guy was saying such bad things about that girl behind her back-who's to say he won't do that again. Well, it would make me feel a little better if it wasn't a hint. That would just be awfully bold. Do you mean was he saying bad things about the girl who kicked him? No, this was a girl he went to high school with 3,000 miles away. Plus even he says he probably deserved it.
finallyhappyme Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I was out to dinner with the guy I like and his ex fwb (they had a thing 6-7 yrs ago for a few months). Well, over dinner he was explaining how a girl . . . injured him with a couple of well placed kicks after he was talking bad about her behind her back. It was so bad he passed out and his parents had to take him to the doctor the next morning. Well, apparently one of his friends is now "wormy," and he says that ever since then he becomes a completely different person in bed, and he really can't control it. Then he looked at me for a long time. This guy knows I'm a virgin. So, here's my questions: 1) What was his motivation for saying this? 2) Can that even happen (one of your boys gets crushed so you become a wild man in bed)? 3) Should I be completely afraid to ever sleep with this guy/lose my virginity to him? I don't wanna die, lol. It's not something that's really a possibility until 6 months to a year from when/if we start going out, but I'm just curious. I'm sorry i dont understand the story? So because a girl kicked him he becomes wild in bed??
jcster Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 eek! What a strange conversation. My question to you is why do you want to lose your virginity to this guy? It sounds like he has issues and perhaps a not too healthy attitude towards women. I'm sure you could find 100s of men that would be better candidates than him.
Author Jane T Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 I'm sorry i dont understand the story? So because a girl kicked him he becomes wild in bed?? No, you understand it, it's just weird.
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Well, apparently one of his friends is now "wormy," and he says that ever since then he becomes a completely different person in bed, and he really can't control it. I don't understand this part. What friend is he talking about, what is 'wormy', and what does his 'wormy' friend have to do with his own prowess in bed? Are you saying 'friend' meaning 'testicle' and 'wormy' meaning well... like a worm? I'm not sure what a shrunken, dangling, worm-like testicle would have to do with your sexual abilities. Sorry, maybe I'm just dense. I don't get it.
Author Jane T Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 eek! What a strange conversation. My question to you is why do you want to lose your virginity to this guy? It sounds like he has issues and perhaps a not too healthy attitude towards women. I'm sure you could find 100s of men that would be better candidates than him. Oh, we both have issues Do you really think that he doesn't have a healthy attitude towards women? He seems to be quite the feminist in many of his ideas. However, he'd be the first to say that he has no problem with casual sex as long as he's not in a relationship. Dude would definitely need to be tested when/if we were ready to have sex. Like I said, I wouldn't be hopping into bed with him next week. It would be after we're in a serious relationship, even then 6 months to a year after that, and even then I wouldn't guarantee it.
Author Jane T Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 I don't understand this part. What friend is he talking about, what is 'wormy', and what does his 'wormy' friend have to do with his own prowess in bed? Are you saying 'friend' meaning 'testicle' and 'wormy' meaning well... like a worm? I'm not sure what a shrunken, dangling, worm-like testicle would have to do with your sexual abilities. Sorry, maybe I'm just dense. I don't get it. He was saying that he has a crushed testicle, and it feels different than the other. I don't think it's supposed to be visibily deformed (at least he didn't say it was) but it feels different to him than the other one.
sb129 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I know a couple of guys who have ONE testicle, and to my knowledge they are still the same in bed as they were before they lost their testicles. (One guy lost his to cancer, the other guy lost his in an accident. "wormy"??? I think they were trying to wind you up to see what your reaction was.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Hahaha... if some guy told me he had a wormy nut, the last thing I would be thinking about is sex with him. I'd be thinking.... wormy?!
finallyhappyme Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Hahaha... if some guy told me he had a wormy nut, the last thing I would be thinking about is sex with him. I'd be thinking.... wormy?! The testicle is not supposed to be the WORMY part! LMAO:lmao:
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Ok, so he has a wormy dick. That's still gross. When I think of something 'wormy' I think of tapeworms, pinworms, hookworms, stuff like that.
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