mochachoclat Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I been working with a man for a year and a half and I knew about him being married with kids and I also knew that he was always going to stay with his wife. He has told me this to my face long before anything started between us. Even though I've been working with him for over a year, I have been knowing him all my life but always just considered him a friend of a friend. Well things got a little crazy this summer and I slipped up and now I can't walk away from it. It is always in my face that I am sleeping with him. Even when I say that I will never do it again I see him and I don't really care about his family just my needs. I know if he wasn't with me he would be with someone else which is now making me go crazy because now even though we work very close together he is trying to stay distant and now he is starting to flirt a lot with my other co-worker. I think that it might be jealousy or what and now I am beating my head in because I can't find a solution to something that is in my face at all times. I have gotten to the point where I am ready to quit my job but I don't want to do it just over something that should have never happened to began with. But what also makes me go crazy is because he was the one when I first started working there, up to when all this happened, was the one that I could go talk to about anything and he would give me the respect and advice that I needed. Now I can't talk to him about anything which is making me go crazy because I have to keep all these feelings in. If it wasn't him and it was some other man I would be able to talk to him about what is going on, but for the fact it is him I can't tell anybody because he was the one person that I could trust not to tell anybody my problems.
Meaplus3 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I been working with a man for a year and a half and I knew about him being married with kids and I also knew that he was always going to stay with his wife. He has told me this to my face long before anything started between us. Even though I've been working with him for over a year, I have been knowing him all my life but always just considered him a friend of a friend. Well things got a little crazy this summer and I slipped up and now I can't walk away from it. It is always in my face that I am sleeping with him. Even when I say that I will never do it again I see him and I don't really care about his family just my needs. I know if he wasn't with me he would be with someone else which is now making me go crazy because now even though we work very close together he is trying to stay distant and now he is starting to flirt a lot with my other co-worker. I think that it might be jealousy or what and now I am beating my head in because I can't find a solution to something that is in my face at all times. I have gotten to the point where I am ready to quit my job but I don't want to do it just over something that should have never happened to began with. But what also makes me go crazy is because he was the one when I first started working there, up to when all this happened, was the one that I could go talk to about anything and he would give me the respect and advice that I needed. Now I can't talk to him about anything which is making me go crazy because I have to keep all these feelings in. If it wasn't him and it was some other man I would be able to talk to him about what is going on, but for the fact it is him I can't tell anybody because he was the one person that I could trust not to tell anybody my problems. Do not quit you job! I must ask you how did this all start? Is he a co-worker your boss? Just a little more info? AP:)
Author mochachoclat Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 He's not my boss but he has been there so long that he knows more than my bosses. Me and him are actually equals within the company its just that he has put in many more years than myself.
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