Broken up, a whole nother world . Ill be ok!

[waitingwaitingonyou]

Well me and my gf of 9 months just broke up on sunday. I dont want to be with her cuz she has got lots of problems. I found out that she was doing drugs and that she was cheating on me. I really want to call her and see how she is doing and what she is doing but i know that it will not help. She does coke and marijuana. Before she was a heroin addict. I have a great job and make alot of money and I do not want that stuff in my life. She is the wrong girl for me. But why in the hell am i attracted to her. She treated me like crap. Right now I have been on 2 days of nc and i am trying to go strong. But it is hard.

 

Any words of advice would be great from all of you at LS. This place rocks!

 

Thanks again!

[Lovegod]

There's lots of better women out there who aren't coke addicts. There's lots of BETTER LOOKING women out there who aren't coke addicts. You did the right thing by ditching her. You'll save yourself a lot of headache, heartache, and money.

 

As far as this place rocking, I'm not too sure about that one. I feel like the survivor of a derailed train wreck with most of the other survivors having broken bones, and doing months or years of intense and unsuccessful physio-therapy.

[waitingwaitingonyou]

well here is my question to you lovegod. What do i do if she initiates contact. I dont really want to have anything to do with her. I am on 2 days NC and I have no desier to call her or talk to her

[waitingwaitingonyou]

any help anyone? I doubt she will call but I Really dont want to backtrack with this chick!

[Lovegod]

What do i do if she initiates contact.

 

If you have caller ID, ignore the call. If she emails or texts, delete it without responding. If she's irritatingly persistent, tell her to sod off.

 

She'll get the message and contact will fizzle away.