pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 Met my MM tonight and told him it was over. Explained to him that emotionally I do love him, but our children need a father...a family. I apologized to thim that I could not make it work. No matter how I tried to make the relationship feasible it always ended alone. He just cant love two families. He doesnt believe that I am ending it. He doesnt think I have the willpower to say goodbye. He just told me it isnt a bad situation, just an impossible one. He said something about men seeing how wonderful I am and I told him that he didnt. He responded that he does know I am wonderful he just cant do anything about it. He left tonight very sad knowing it was the last time he would kiss me, touch me, have me love on him. I told him he could see his son, but I had to move on. He just kept asking why? Why was I just pushing him away? I told him it has no happy ending. No matter what I sacrifice, what I accept abpout his marriage it is never enough. He was very sad and upset. He assured me no man will ever do anything but hurt me. And there better never be another man in our home. Which is the home he provided for me and our child. He asked me if I thought it was fair to have another man in his house? Well, it ended on a sad note. He just kept kissing me goodbye and waiting for me to tell him I love him. All I said was goodbye. I know tonight will be the last time we are ever together. My heart is sad. Tomorrow my attorney will serve him with the paternity letter while he is at work. I dont know how he will react. I am assuming pissed off beyond all measure. I think I am going to retain 24 hour bodyguard service until this matter is resolved. He has made many threats to me in the past if I ever contacted an attorney. But the attorney has assured me he cannot evict me from our home, he must pay the retainer and he has to pay immediate temporary support. Our child has rights. Yes, for all those who inferred that I dont work. Well, no, right now I have a child that is under 6 months of age. Until a time that I feel he can be away from me then I beleive he deserves at least one full time parent. It is a job raising a family as a single parent. I wont take that bonding time away from him. When he is older, of course I will return to work. I am college educated. I wish no harm for my MM family. But, my attorney said I cannot concern myself with it. I did not make the decision to cheat, I was unaware of his marriage. He is the one who has the committment to his wife. The one thing I want, which my attorney assures I will get, is our child will have his fathers last name. Its important our child knows where he comes from and who his family is. It is our childs right and no one has the right to deny him that. I will keep you posted on his reaction tomorrow once he is served. I dont look for it to be positive. He was heartbroken that I ended the relationship tonight, of course after we had physical intimacy, but nonetheless I told him that was the last time...the end...its over.
KATANYA Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 Wow......sounds like the world is about to change drastically for you and for him. What's your plan now? You say you don't work and that he provided the house, paid the bills etc. You are going to hire 24 hr. body guard. What do you plan to do for money in order to do all this??? I'm sure you have thought this all through but I can't imagine that child support will be enough to get by on.....at least it isn't where I live, even with an ex that makes good money. And, at least in my area, child support only takes in the needs of the child.........not the parent. I know how hard it is to be a single mom and how important it is to stay at home to bond with your infant.....I wish I had had that luxury but I had to return to work when my child was 9 mts old in order to support us. Unfortunately, even with a child support order, my ex was totally deadbeat and, to this day, I have never seen a cent and he has never once tried to see the children........Now I think its the best thing that could have happened but at the time is was all VERY difficult. Its too bad you and he could not have worked out an arrangement privately that would have been written into a contract, etc. to avoid this whole scenerio. I would encourage you to seek some counselling just to get YOU through all of this and to help keep you strong....now more than ever your son needs you. Good luck tomorrow. I'll be reading to see how it went.
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 How are you taking care of your other children? Where are their fathers? What will happen when MM cuts you off, and makes you move out of the house he has you staying in? From your other posts, it doesn't sound like you will be able to give your children much of a quality life. You are in your fifties. How are your children going to be cared for when you can't do it anymore?
Impudent Oyster Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 I for one have been following your story intently and can't wait to hear the outcome...especially longterm. Thanks for keeping us posted.
4whatItsWorth Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 And there better never be another man in our home. Which is the home he provided for me and our child. He asked me if I thought it was fair to have another man in his house? Did he think about that statement when he brought another woman into his marriage? Talk about a hypocrite...Do you really think you child will WANT to have his dad's last name knowing his dad was a cheating MM who wouldn't end his marriage and be with his son? This is a true mess...
Cobra_X30 Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 Yes, for all those who inferred that I dont work. Well, no, right now I have a child that is under 6 months of age. Until a time that I feel he can be away from me then I beleive he deserves at least one full time parent. It is a job raising a family as a single parent. I wont take that bonding time away from him. When he is older, of course I will return to work. I am college educated. It's good that you dont work! I'm 100% behind you on this. Take care of you kids first! The only time you need to work is to provide them food, potable water, and stable shelter! If you've already got that... spend this time with you baby, and dont let anyone make you feel bad for that!
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 Wow......sounds like the world is about to change drastically for you and for him. What's your plan now? You say you don't work and that he provided the house, paid the bills etc. You are going to hire 24 hr. body guard. What do you plan to do for money in order to do all this??? I'm sure you have thought this all through but I can't imagine that child support will be enough to get by on.....at least it isn't where I live, even with an ex that makes good money. And, at least in my area, child support only takes in the needs of the child.........not the parent. I know how hard it is to be a single mom and how important it is to stay at home to bond with your infant.....I wish I had had that luxury but I had to return to work when my child was 9 mts old in order to support us. Unfortunately, even with a child support order, my ex was totally deadbeat and, to this day, I have never seen a cent and he has never once tried to see the children........Now I think its the best thing that could have happened but at the time is was all VERY difficult. Its too bad you and he could not have worked out an arrangement privately that would have been written into a contract, etc. to avoid this whole scenerio. I would encourage you to seek some counselling just to get YOU through all of this and to help keep you strong....now more than ever your son needs you. Good luck tomorrow. I'll be reading to see how it went. attorney assured me that he cannot evict me from our home, nor can he charge me any type of rent. He bought it to raise our son so he cannot diminish the lifestyle he currently provides us. The only thing that will change is the amount of support will increase and he wont be able to control every move i make. And, of course, our son will have his fathers last name.
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 How are you taking care of your other children? Where are their fathers? What will happen when MM cuts you off, and makes you move out of the house he has you staying in? From your other posts, it doesn't sound like you will be able to give your children much of a quality life. You are in your fifties. How are your children going to be cared for when you can't do it anymore? I receive child support for my other child. not to the extent that I will for my youngest. but in my state it is about the child's lifestyle. he is entitled to live the lifestyle that his fathers income can provide. that is regardless if it indirectly benefits the custodial household, which in turn would benefit indireectly me, any other children, etc. my youngest child deserves to be provided for as his father provides for his other children. He is not going to be taking away from his maried fmily to provide for us, he has the means to do both without blinking an eye. Attorney said tmeporty support will begin immediately, so im not worried about him cutting me off. i am more concerned with his rage from losing control of me and of me leaving him. he has threatened more than once how easy it would be to make me disappear.
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 he has threatened more than once how easy it would be to make me disappear. That is chilling. I hope you will protect you and yours, and I especially hope you made this clear to your lawyer and next of kin should something happen to you. People find themselves on some dark paths in this life, but no one deserves to be killed for that.
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 That is chilling. I hope you will protect you and yours, and I especially hope you made this clear to your lawyer and next of kin should something happen to you. People find themselves on some dark paths in this life, but no one deserves to be killed for that. i know he loves me and our son. but powerful men are use to being in control. money was the only means of control in our relationship. when that is gone i dont expect him to be rational. my attorney is aware of this and steps are being taken to assure our safety. my other hope is that he will want to settle quickly for privacys sake to keep the public from finding out. but i dont know if he will drag it out to try and keep control of the situation and maintain almost a forced contact with me. he was upset and emotional when i told him last night was the end, our last night together, he didnt want it to end,
nadiaj2727 Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 attorney assured me that he cannot evict me from our home, nor can he charge me any type of rent. He bought it to raise our son so he cannot diminish the lifestyle he currently provides us. Did your attorney say whether or not he could SELL the house? I believe he can, if it's only in his name. He has no obligation to provide a house for the child/ child's mother, only child support. Unless there is some law in your state that I am completely clueless about, there is nothing preventing him from selling a house that's in his name anytime he wants. Be careful. Good luck to you, I wish you happiness.
quankanne Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 for heaven's sake girl, tell me you've got an emotional support system in place ... that there is a group of friends or family or both who will rally around you once the crap hits the fan ... because if he is as powerful or accustomed to being the one in power when it comes to other dealings, he's going to respond with a vengeance when he figures out to what degree he's been thwarted. As much as he may love you and the child, that's going to fall by the wayside because it will become about control. and for pete's sake, let as many people as possible IRL know what sort of threats he's made toward you so that you're protected.
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 for heaven's sake girl, tell me you've got an emotional support system in place ... that there is a group of friends or family or both who will rally around you once the crap hits the fan ... because if he is as powerful or accustomed to being the one in power when it comes to other dealings, he's going to respond with a vengeance when he figures out to what degree he's been thwarted. As much as he may love you and the child, that's going to fall by the wayside because it will become about control. and for pete's sake, let as many people as possible IRL know what sort of threats he's made toward you so that you're protected. I have a bodyguard already on call to be here at a moments notice and my friends call on me daily to check in with me. My attorney is handling protective orders if it gets bad. I wonder if he is going to call me and scream and yell when he is served today. I actually would feel better if he did that rather than not contact me at all. total silence will really make me nervous if he internalizes his rage.
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 attorney assured me that he cannot evict me from our home, nor can he charge me any type of rent. He bought it to raise our son so he cannot diminish the lifestyle he currently provides us. Did your attorney say whether or not he could SELL the house? I believe he can, if it's only in his name. He has no obligation to provide a house for the child/ child's mother, only child support. Unless there is some law in your state that I am completely clueless about, there is nothing preventing him from selling a house that's in his name anytime he wants. Be careful. Good luck to you, I wish you happiness. He cant sell the house. He cant do anything to take away from the lifestyle he presently has provided for our son. My attorney assured me of that. In addition, just the very act of him making such an attempt will not look good to a judge if he chooses to take it to court instead of settling out of court. Please everyone understand that once this is settled I will be able tot ell you it is settled but their will probably be some type of prviacy (gag) order in place at some point stating i can not reveal the terms of the settlement.
whichwayisup Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 Take care of you! Be around people you know well as much as you can. And, don't be afraid to call 911 if you need to. Another thing to think about, put your lastname on the baby's birth certificate. Why are you using his lastname???
nadiaj2727 Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 He cant sell the house. He cant do anything to take away from the lifestyle he presently has provided for our son. I have never heard of this law and I am an attorney. I don't practice family law but I took the class in law school and that was not part of the formula for child support. They also take into account the mother's lifestyle and balance it out. Did he buy the house before you had the son or after? If this is the law then why doesn't every woman go seduce a rich man so she can get pregnant and live in a nice house for 18 years? I'm NOT implying this was your intention, I'm just saying the laws are in place for common sense reasons, and it doesn't make sense. What if 15 women got pregnant by this man... he would not have to keep them all living in nice houses. First his own family's living style is taken into consideration and then the rest of his money goes towards child support for the new child, based not only on what he makes but also what the mother makes. I'm not saying he shouldn't be responsible to meet his son's needs. He made a baby and he has to support it. But I think your attorney is setting your expectations a little high if he's allowing you to think that this man must always pay for the best of the best for your son. Child support is there so that the child's basic needs are met by both parents, not so that the child can be rich just because his mother had an affair with a rich man. It is not the law that a rich man who was showering his mistress with luxurious thingsmust continue to do so after they have a child or that the child must have the same luxurious lifestyle as its father once lavished upon its mother because he simply *wanted* to. (What I'm trying to say is, spending things on a woman because you WANT to is different from a legal obligation to support your child's basic needs, or continue the lifestyle the mother got used to while she was with you, AFTER the child is born if you are no longer together and don't feel like doing that anymore). I don't mean to burst your bubble, I'm just trying to get you to think realistically about this. Maybe your legal filing will have the opposite affect and it will make him stop spending any money on the two of you besides what he has to by law. In that case I really hope your attorney's right and that at least your son can stay in the house, b/c I doubt your MM will have any further desire to give you any more money than he has to.
whichwayisup Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 In that case I really hope your attorney's right and that at least your son can stay in the house, b/c I doubt your MM will have any further desire to give you any more money than he has to. If he can keep this quiet, then he'll probably throw enough money her way. Sounds like this MM is kind of famous and rich, so if he can prevent it from hitting the gossip rags, he'll do whatever is necessary to protect himself.
KATANYA Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 have a bodyguard already on call to be here at a moments notice and my friends call on me daily to check in with me. My attorney is handling protective orders if it gets bad. I wonder if he is going to call me and scream and yell when he is served today. I actually would feel better if he did that rather than not contact me at all. total silence will really make me nervous if he internalizes his rage. I'm thinking if he is that powerful and with status he probably has an ace attorney (attorneys) of his own that 'settle' issues that arise in his life that threaten his image. My guess is that the first thing his attorney will say is "do not have ANY contact with this woman from now on". If I were his attorney I would be warning him that any contact with you, conversations with you, meetings with you, etc. could be a further trap for him to step into. I'm guessing, given his presumed stature, that his attorneys will be directed to 'make this matter disappear'.....meaning offer you a settlement significant enough to make you go away and have you sign some type of confidentiality order stating that you agree to the settlement but if this gets leaked all deals are off! If he is that powerful than his wife, family and the public may never know because he has people who's job it is to make sure no one ever knows. I guess you must know what you want out of this. If you are looking for the monetary settlement in order to provide for your child, then your attorney probably has calculated what you are looking for and knows the deals to make. If you are more interested in ensuring that your child is part of MM's life, has visitation with MM and a role in his 'public' life you may be in for a VERY rude awakening. MM could decide that paying the support is fine but acknowledging and embracing your child as part of his primary family/life will not happen. Sometimes I think these children (no matter how well they will be provided for monetarily) are the biggest losers - no amount of money will make people (public, W, children, etc. etc.) accept OC. OC will always be the product of a 'mistake' in many people's eyes and that is something the OC has to be able to live with. Because MM is this well known and powerful his first family (wife/children) will probably not want to share their 'wealth' and 'lifestyle' with the OC (and, indirectly the OW), making OC always an outsider who is 'taking' from them. Public figures have spin doctors who's job it is to make them look good - and make others look bad. They can make the worst people look like victims and garnish sympathy for those who should be tarred and feathered and who would be if it were not for their stature. The victims them become people like yourself and your child! I know there are situations when the OC is accepted by the W etc. but I don't believe that happens in most cases (at least not the ones I have heard of). The M will probably survive but the relationship with MM and OW will not and the relationship with MM and OC is going to be a very difficult one to cultivate I would think????? Do you think someone with this amount of wealth and privilege (being MM) will forego the M, his children and his 'public' image and life in order to raise OC with you, even if you do not stay as a couple? Its great if you get the money you want to maintain your child's (and your) lifestyle but somehow I think that I would prefer to raise my child on my own and without his help instead of feeling like my child was seen by many as a 'money ticket' or would in any way be hurt or mistreated because of 'who' he is (but that is just me...perhaps I'm too stubborn and way too overprotective)....MM should support his child but will he accept this child and will he help raise the child? If the answer to any of these questions is no or I don't know, give your son your own name...he can pick when he is old enough if he wants his father's name or even wants to be considered his father's son!
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 have a bodyguard already on call to be here at a moments notice and my friends call on me daily to check in with me. My attorney is handling protective orders if it gets bad. I wonder if he is going to call me and scream and yell when he is served today. I actually would feel better if he did that rather than not contact me at all. total silence will really make me nervous if he internalizes his rage. I'm thinking if he is that powerful and with status he probably has an ace attorney (attorneys) of his own that 'settle' issues that arise in his life that threaten his image. My guess is that the first thing his attorney will say is "do not have ANY contact with this woman from now on". If I were his attorney I would be warning him that any contact with you, conversations with you, meetings with you, etc. could be a further trap for him to step into. I'm guessing, given his presumed stature, that his attorneys will be directed to 'make this matter disappear'.....meaning offer you a settlement significant enough to make you go away and have you sign some type of confidentiality order stating that you agree to the settlement but if this gets leaked all deals are off! If he is that powerful than his wife, family and the public may never know because he has people who's job it is to make sure no one ever knows. I guess you must know what you want out of this. If you are looking for the monetary settlement in order to provide for your child, then your attorney probably has calculated what you are looking for and knows the deals to make. If you are more interested in ensuring that your child is part of MM's life, has visitation with MM and a role in his 'public' life you may be in for a VERY rude awakening. MM could decide that paying the support is fine but acknowledging and embracing your child as part of his primary family/life will not happen. Sometimes I think these children (no matter how well they will be provided for monetarily) are the biggest losers - no amount of money will make people (public, W, children, etc. etc.) accept OC. OC will always be the product of a 'mistake' in many people's eyes and that is something the OC has to be able to live with. Because MM is this well known and powerful his first family (wife/children) will probably not want to share their 'wealth' and 'lifestyle' with the OC (and, indirectly the OW), making OC always an outsider who is 'taking' from them. Public figures have spin doctors who's job it is to make them look good - and make others look bad. They can make the worst people look like victims and garnish sympathy for those who should be tarred and feathered and who would be if it were not for their stature. The victims them become people like yourself and your child! I know there are situations when the OC is accepted by the W etc. but I don't believe that happens in most cases (at least not the ones I have heard of). The M will probably survive but the relationship with MM and OW will not and the relationship with MM and OC is going to be a very difficult one to cultivate I would think????? Do you think someone with this amount of wealth and privilege (being MM) will forego the M, his children and his 'public' image and life in order to raise OC with you, even if you do not stay as a couple? Its great if you get the money you want to maintain your child's (and your) lifestyle but somehow I think that I would prefer to raise my child on my own and without his help instead of feeling like my child was seen by many as a 'money ticket' or would in any way be hurt or mistreated because of 'who' he is (but that is just me...perhaps I'm too stubborn and way too overprotective)....MM should support his child but will he accept this child and will he help raise the child? If the answer to any of these questions is no or I don't know, give your son your own name...he can pick when he is old enough if he wants his father's name or even wants to be considered his father's son! I love him, of course I would love to have a life with him. If he divorced his wife I would marry him. But, I know thats not going to happen. I wont spend the rest of my life as an OW. As far as all the legalities of supporting our child I am not worried. My attorney is the best...he has thouroughly explained the laws to me and it is not anything to do with my relationship with my MM. It is all about our child's rights. I have to separate my feelings from this and concentrate on what our child deserves. That is all I care about to ensure that he lives a life that both of us provide to him. Everyone always looks at money...but, being a single mother, well, you cant put a price on all those days and nights you spend with your children without the help and emotional support of their father.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Yes, for all those who inferred that I dont work. Well, no, right now I have a child that is under 6 months of age. Until a time that I feel he can be away from me then I beleive he deserves at least one full time parent. It is a job raising a family as a single parent. I wont take that bonding time away from him. When he is older, of course I will return to work. I am college educated. I receive child support for my other child. not to the extent that I will for my youngest. but in my state it is about the child's lifestyle. he is entitled to live the lifestyle that his fathers income can provide. that is regardless if it indirectly benefits the custodial household, which in turn would benefit indireectly me, any other children, etc. my youngest child deserves to be provided for as his father provides for his other children. He is not going to be taking away from his maried fmily to provide for us, he has the means to do both without blinking an eye. Attorney said tmeporty support will begin immediately, so im not worried about him cutting me off. i am more concerned with his rage from losing control of me and of me leaving him. he has threatened more than once how easy it would be to make me disappear. Good lord. GOLD-DIG MUCH?? Just curious. Sounds like a hobby of yours. Maybe the next MM you could marry.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 He cant sell the house. He cant do anything to take away from the lifestyle he presently has provided for our son. I have never heard of this law and I am an attorney. I don't practice family law but I took the class in law school and that was not part of the formula for child support. They also take into account the mother's lifestyle and balance it out. Did he buy the house before you had the son or after? If this is the law then why doesn't every woman go seduce a rich man so she can get pregnant and live in a nice house for 18 years? I'm NOT implying this was your intention, I'm just saying the laws are in place for common sense reasons, and it doesn't make sense. What if 15 women got pregnant by this man... he would not have to keep them all living in nice houses. First his own family's living style is taken into consideration and then the rest of his money goes towards child support for the new child, based not only on what he makes but also what the mother makes. I'm not saying he shouldn't be responsible to meet his son's needs. He made a baby and he has to support it. But I think your attorney is setting your expectations a little high if he's allowing you to think that this man must always pay for the best of the best for your son. Child support is there so that the child's basic needs are met by both parents, not so that the child can be rich just because his mother had an affair with a rich man. It is not the law that a rich man who was showering his mistress with luxurious thingsmust continue to do so after they have a child or that the child must have the same luxurious lifestyle as its father once lavished upon its mother because he simply *wanted* to. (What I'm trying to say is, spending things on a woman because you WANT to is different from a legal obligation to support your child's basic needs, or continue the lifestyle the mother got used to while she was with you, AFTER the child is born if you are no longer together and don't feel like doing that anymore). I don't mean to burst your bubble, I'm just trying to get you to think realistically about this. Maybe your legal filing will have the opposite affect and it will make him stop spending any money on the two of you besides what he has to by law. In that case I really hope your attorney's right and that at least your son can stay in the house, b/c I doubt your MM will have any further desire to give you any more money than he has to. Usually if he was at least married to the woman. But as in Oscar De La Hoya's case, he kicked the mother of his child out of his house and she just sued for some type of palimony. I don't know how much she actually received, but to say that he has no rights regarding a house in his name doesn't make any sense. And the funny part is that it isn't even under his name. It's under a company name, which means his COMPANY has to foot your bill for life? I don't think so. First off, that would mean the entity CAN kick you out whenever they choose if it's disadvantageous to the company. Not to mention that YOU just ended the relationship! I figured you were unemployed. Fit the gold-digger persona perfectly. I'd laugh if the judge told you to start looking for a job.
stillafool Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Just curious - where you married to your other child's father who is currently paying child support? I agree with WWIU, the baby should have your last name since his father won't be around that much for him. When you take him to school it will be less confusing for him that he has one name and his mom has another name. Also I can't believe you were intimate with him. Does he and his wife have their own family as well?
stillafool Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I also agree that I don't think this man is going to spend a dime more on you and the baby than he has to. If he was open to that sort of thing he wouldn't have threatened your life if you contacted an attorney. Once papers are served his wife will find out and you will see a totally different side of this guy. Poor little baby though, none of this is his/her fault. Too bad the little baby has to suffer for other's mistakes. How do you explain this to the baby?
corazoncito Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 In another thread dated Feb 13, 2007 you said you're 53 years old. You have a <1 year-old child with this guy???
nadiaj2727 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 being a single mother, well, you cant put a price on all those days and nights you spend with your children without the help and emotional support of their father. Why do you feel it's all the absent father's fault? You were the one who slept with a married man you acknowledge that you knew you couldn't ever have. You allowed yourself to become pregnant to this man you knew could not emotionally support a baby with you, and then you chose to have the baby. I don't know how to put it nicely but I feel that making this baby was just as much your fault as this jerk of a MM's fault, but being with that jerk in the first place AND chosing to have the baby is way more your fault (in terms of your son's perspective) than the father's fault. If you would have made better decisions, you wouldn't have had a son who could not have the emotional support of his father. Now you want to put a price tag on your own actions and sue the father for it? Again, that is *not* how the law works. No one, including the father, is going to compensate you for your own bad decisions. I don't think you are for real. Others have mentioned your other post about being an old dried-up all alone 50-year-old with two grown children who don't love you. I think you are either making up stories for attention (at least one of those stories has to be completely fabricated) or you are completely dillusional. Whoever you really are, I suggest you go to therapy. And if you really do have this poor little 1-year-old child, please please go to therapy!!!
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