Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 Don't let it get you down, it is a case of going through quite a few people, sending quite a few emails before anything happens. Also I am rubbish at keeping up with it, takes me ages to send back emails just cause I am usually busy with work during day and own things in evening and just don't always think to hop on there and respond. I also never get incontact with guys in the first instance at the moment I let them come to me, so the more winks, emails you send out the more responses you'll get. it's just mentally draining to constantly be on the hunt, after a while you just no longer have the mental energy
stillafool Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I don't understand. It seems it would be very easy to find a girl who likes to read, watch TV and eat seafood. What's the big deal?????????????
bigheartkindsoul Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 it's just mentally draining to constantly be on the hunt, after a while you just no longer have the mental energy I find not, if you keep an open mind and just think well even if I just got a night out in the company of someone of the opp sex and had some fun. Granted not everyone will be fun, I had one last night it was hard work and bit dull but I still got to go to a nice pub for a couple of hours! Perhaps your trying too look to far into the future instead of just looking at it, that you well on the first meet anyway it is just that, meeting a new person - there is no date about the first time you meet someone IMO. Anyhows, you cannot tell me out off the millions of online daters you haven't found aload you like, not just for looks but look for other qualities and that you have not heard back from a single one you contacted? It isn't easy but it can be alot of fun, change sites to a more busy one if yours is not working for you perhaps Good luck
bigheartkindsoul Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I don't understand. It seems it would be very easy to find a girl who likes to read, watch TV and eat seafood. What's the big deal????????????? You have a good ney excellent point, don't just go for the looks if the at least do not look like the back of a horse, meet up with them they may just may look better in person, if not you have only lost a couple of hours, nothing more??????
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