Phateless Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I've had this sneaking suspicion for quite some time, but when an old friend came to town, his immediate first impression of her confirmed what I've been thinking. I'm still not positive that it's true, but anyway. We've always been kind of affectionate, but it's always been friendly. Just calling each other sweetie, hugs, that kind of stuff. Nothing over the top to where I feel like "oh ****, I've been leading her on" Now I'm getting weird because I don't like her that way, and I'm worried that I'm gonna have to watch what I say and do, and yeah... kinda weirds me out. Funny thing is, I never thought I was in any danger of her liking me that way. Go figure... Also, I feel like I can't talk about other girls to her, or when we're at a bar and she sees me flirting with another girl, I can tell it bugs her. So now I feel like I can't be as comfortable around her as I used to. Thoughts, advice, opinions? I'm used to being on the other side of this problem. -cliffs- -think female friend likes me -my friend's first impression of her was the same theory -i'm no longer as comfortable around her cuz i don't want her to think i feel the same -she gets kinda pissed when we're at a bar and she sees me flirting with another girl thanks guys
squeak Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 It will never be the same again, probably less hanging out is the best thing here. She will take any little thing you do as "proof" you like her. And one day she will meet another guy, and most likely she won't want to hang out with you as much, as it will remind her of the rejection. This is why I don't think males and females can be friends...always happens if the 2 hang out a lot. One reads more into it.
Lyssa Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 I would avoid hanging out together from now on. It will only make her think that you like her just as much. If one gets possessive (even if they are just friends), that only means one feels stronger for the other. I look out for my male friends when we hang out together. I don't mind at all if he flirted with the girls around us. I would even go up to her and get her num for my guy friend (if he's too shy!). That kinda thing, you know but if you're that friend that I LIKE A LOT then I would be jealous. What I am trying to say is that if she likes you just as friends, it shouldn't bother her but seeing that it did bother her... clearly states that she likes you more than just a friend.
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