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coco_milkshake Established Member

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off subject, but even for a guy???? :confused:

 

Lol. I dont mind that as long as its nice and tight. :love:

coco_milkshake Established Member

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U go girl ;)

 

hey there, I have big tits and get made fun of, stared at, have girls that are jealous and make remarks - but I am proud of them and apart from one bit (my tummy) I love my body. Its taken years to get to the level of liking my body.

 

If your born a size 0 and thats how your body is this is fine, but the pressure on us girls to lose weight all the dam time is quite frankly all a bit much.

 

Yeah, I have been naturally skinny but have curves in all the right places lol. I like my hips and my butt but wish my bust was a bit bigger. I am actuallly a 30DD/32D but I prefer saying 32D cos it sounds bigger lol. Yeah I know, sad. :laugh:

 

One time I fitted into a size 12 skirt and I was soo happy. My mum said she is going to watch what I eat cos that is too big. :confused: I dont think so. Curves are definitely beautiful in my eyes (in a non-lesbian way lol).

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Wow!! You are sooo pretty!!!! :bunny::bunny:

 

:o:o:o:o

 

Thank you

Sean0775 Established Member

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Wow!! You are sooo pretty!!!! :bunny::bunny:

Second the motion.

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bkhs, i'm not really sure what you are worried about. smokin' hot!:love:

ali too...:love:

ya'll gots it goin' on! as matter of fact, i don't think i've seen an unattractive women on LS yet!

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Second the motion.

 

bkhs, i'm not really sure what you are worried about. smokin' hot!:love:

ali too...:love:

ya'll gots it goin' on! as matter of fact, i don't think i've seen an unattractive women on LS yet!

 

Ahem but single once again!! ;) Like alot of girls on LS, me thinking we are too smoking hot for our ex's and they just couldn't handle it???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ;););)

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Do guys prefer women with curves

 

Oh my gosh yes. Big busted is not a requirement, but curves are a must. Skinny legs need not apply. And if you have no a$$, I will not look twice. :)

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Ahem but single once again!! ;) Like alot of girls on LS, me thinking we are too smoking hot for our ex's and they just couldn't handle it???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ;););)

 

How are you still single??? :eek:

 

I agree with your second statement 100% ;)

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Ok thought this would be a good question/poll.

 

This was the thread that got me started on this thought

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1383302&posted=1#post1383302

 

Ok it's just one person, but was curious as to what others thought.

 

Ok I love my curves I am a UK size 12, with 34F bust, a very nice butt and great legs. My tummy is the only thing that I would like to make improvements on but it really isn't that sticky out.

 

So I would say I am a bigger version of Pamela Anderson figure wise but with real boobs.

 

So what figure do you find attractive or for girls what figure do you have and are you mainly happy with it?

 

I am not a guy but from what I hear all the time... I think men do love women with curves more than skinny women...

 

I am also very satisfied with my body... (natural 38DD, nicely shaped, nice butt, these are my two 'assets' LOL)

 

I was telling my daughter a few weeks ago, how scared I am to gain weight and to lose my shape (I'm 55)... and she said... so what if you gain some weight, you've been blessed all your life... (as if now that I'm older, it doesn't matter if I lose my shape :( I don't think so... LOL...

 

I know that, for my age, I have a great body, still... and I do flaunt it, every chance I get.. LOL

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How are you still single??? :eek:

 

I agree with your second statement 100% ;)

 

You are beautiful. I think our curves are great. We are healthy, beautiful, and we kinda kick ass. So there.

 

So are you gals, very beautiful as for the statement, yeah I reckon I am sticking with that one for quite sometime too come. Glad I came up with that.....lol

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bkhs, i'm not really sure what you are worried about. smokin' hot!:love:

ali too...:love:

ya'll gots it goin' on! as matter of fact, i don't think i've seen an unattractive women on LS yet!

Thanks, would you believe that this guy I've been stuck on said that I wasn't beautiful, but I have the potential to be? What does that mean?
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I think Marilyn Monroe is way more sexier than Twiggy or Kate Moss. Enough said.

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Thanks, would you believe that this guy I've been stuck on said that I wasn't beautiful, but I have the potential to be? What does that mean?

 

Holy Crap!!

 

What a D-bag! I hope you kicked him in the nuts for saying that. If not... I'm totally willing to do it for you.

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Thanks, would you believe that this guy I've been stuck on said that I wasn't beautiful, but I have the potential to be? What does that mean?

 

ummm.....that means that he is 1) blind, or 2) a control freak that doesn't want you to feel good about yourself and wants to put youoff balance so that he can manipulate your insecurity. If you don't feel beautiful, you won't feel as worthwhile, hence you won't feel that you can demand to be treated as worthwhile. If he says you have potential, that suggests that only he can see your potential and that he wants you to be dependent on him to make that potential real. Ali, I've been following your other threads on this guy and he is a MESS. You deserve someone who is KNOCKED OUT by your beauty when you wake up in the morning with no make-up and pillow wrinkles....not someone who is going to make you jump through hoops to get their approval.

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You are beautiful. I think our curves are great. We are healthy, beautiful, and we kinda kick ass. So there.

 

Thanks, would you believe that this guy I've been stuck on said that I wasn't beautiful, but I have the potential to be? What does that mean?

 

Like you I have been told I am not beautiful and have been treated badly also.

 

I can only guess that it is them that have the problems/issues and not us.

 

Perhaps they are threatened by how we look and it makes them feel insecure.

 

But it is not nice to hear and can make you feel like crap.

 

I have only just recently been getting my self esteem back from my horrid break up. I felt fat, ugly, worthless, not worthy of love. Still do every now and again.

 

and peoples comments about CHUBBY CHASERS certainly does not help either!!

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can I also just direct everyone's attention to the fact that the guy who posted that incredibly nasty post cited in the OP, about how she would be less attractive to most men,etc, has a signature that should illuminate for us the quality of mind from which these gems of aesthetic judgment are sprouting? allow me to quote this and his OP from which BKHS's post originated:

 

For me, a great girl to date is one who:

 

1) has sex quickly and enthusiastically

2) is pretty and skinny

3) doesn't give me a bunch of crap

 

To sum my ideal woman in three words: HOT AND EASY

 

-"Eternity" is that period of time after you come and before she leaves.

-Men's reproductive strategy is promiscuity.

-Marriage is a financial institution, nothing more and nothing less. Would a "love institution" need the power of the state to back it up?

 

Though I don't disagree with his third point( in the signature), I will submit to you, oh gentle loveshack dwellers, that perhaps this fine young mind should not be set as the standard-bearer for what is attractive or desirable in women.....

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Like you I have been told I am not beautiful and have been treated badly also.

 

I can only guess that it is them that have the problems/issues and not us.

 

Perhaps they are threatened by how we look and it makes them feel insecure.

 

But it is not nice to hear and can make you feel like crap.

 

I have only just recently been getting my self esteem back from my horrid break up. I felt fat, ugly, worthless, not worthy of love. Still do every now and again.

 

and peoples comments about CHUBBY CHASERS certainly does not help either!!

 

I hear you, I went from a five year relationship where I was ignored 24/7 to this guy who says I'm not beautiful. I feel fat and ugly. Urg. I just need some self-esteem.

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sorry, the signature is that part in boldface type....I couldnt figure out how to quote it so I just pasted it in....

 

and yeah, that chubby-chaser line was just pathetic----you need to reframe this, BKHS---you are gorgeous and if someone doesn't think so, it's not about you, it's about them. Anyone who does not think you're gorgeous and clearly a lovely person is NOT the right person for you. You should be adored! I am giving you an assignment: whenever a guy makes you feel bad about yourself or question your self-worth, WALK AWAY.

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ummm.....that means that he is 1) blind, or 2) a control freak that doesn't want you to feel good about yourself and wants to put youoff balance so that he can manipulate your insecurity. If you don't feel beautiful, you won't feel as worthwhile, hence you won't feel that you can demand to be treated as worthwhile. If he says you have potential, that suggests that only he can see your potential and that he wants you to be dependent on him to make that potential real. Ali, I've been following your other threads on this guy and he is a MESS. You deserve someone who is KNOCKED OUT by your beauty when you wake up in the morning with no make-up and pillow wrinkles....not someone who is going to make you jump through hoops to get their approval.

 

You're absolutely right. Thanks you're awesome.

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sorry, the signature is that part in boldface type....I couldnt figure out how to quote it so I just pasted it in....

 

and yeah, that chubby-chaser line was just pathetic----you need to reframe this, BKHS---you are gorgeous and if someone doesn't think so, it's not about you, it's about them. Anyone who does not think you're gorgeous and clearly a lovely person is NOT the right person for you. You should be adored! I am giving you an assignment: whenever a guy makes you feel bad about yourself or question your self-worth, WALK AWAY.

 

 

Yes this it totally right, sometimes easier said than done.

 

It also is tough to take knock backs so when you go on dates and never hear from them again, you do start to question yourself, looks and body.

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I hear you, I went from a five year relationship where I was ignored 24/7 to this guy who says I'm not beautiful. I feel fat and ugly. Urg. I just need some self-esteem.

 

Pffft!!! You just havent met the right guy yet. Those guys are idiots for not treating you right. You are very beautiful, not fat and ugly. Love yourself!! There are guys who would love to be with you and girls who would love to have your figure!! :bunny:

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