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Dating 4 girls - they constantly dump me!


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I kinda have to agree with 'ol cadrake there, this post rings really true.

Except in cases where:

the chemistry died (then it was permenant break up)

verbally/mentally abusive in any way (then it was permenant break up)

 

Thanks so much for your response. I was kinda hoping someone else could feel what I was getting at, and you did. I agree that women will end it permanently if they don't feel attracted to the guy anymore.

 

I guess you keep getting dumped and taken back because you sweet talk them back but don't really make them feel special like they hoped would happen when taking you back.

 

I think you're absolutely spot-on with this. It's really all talk and no follow-up. Or maybe a little follow up. They dump me because they're not feeling special. Then I make them feel special and they take me back. Then I have to attend to my other girls so they lose out again.

 

However I think at some level many women like this sort of behavior in men. Or, if not "like," they become addicted to it. If you look up "intermittent reinforcement" in a behavioral psychology book you'll see what I mean.

 

Thanks again great post!

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At some point while your busy shuffling your deck of ladies, life is gonna deal you back a little lovin called disease. Think of it as a new shade of pale, so to speak.

 

Then like as you say "pimpin' aint easy" instead you'll be "dying fo yo peeps"

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