Art_Critic Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I was not concerned, that was curiosity because I have my views on what I would like my marriage to be one day and I would like to think if my marriage were a happy one, that my wife would not have 20,000 plus posts to her credit on an Affair forum. That would tell me she is troubled in some way. Communication is an important factor in a marriage and that means on all subject matters. .............
reboot Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 This forum is for the giving and receiving of advice. That is its purpose. I've found it to be a really good resource and there are some truely knowledgeable people here that, for whatever reason (I neither know nor care what their motivation is), choose to share their wisdom. Only the moderators and the site owners have any say about who gives and/or receives this advice. I fail to see anything constructive in this group of people who constantly hijack threads for their own personal agenda.
cokeexhibit Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Maybe to those who dont understand about this forum. SUPPORT AND DISCUSSION FOR THOSE WHO FIND THEMSELVES INVOLVED WITH A COMMITTED PARTNER. Now take that to a professional so they can further explain the meaning
Moose Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Depends were the slam dunk is in. Some might say a toilet. While others may have another opinionSome happily married couples have gone through infidelity within their own marriage therefore qualifies them to help other couples, (married or not), through what they've experienced......
cokeexhibit Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Some happily married couples have gone through infidelity within their own marriage therefore qualifies them to help other couples, (married or not), through what they've experienced...... So let me understand Happily married and they cheated. Wow , the vow in marriage must have changed abit. Is the affair part before or after " In sickness and In health"?
troutie jr Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Some happily married couples have gone through infidelity within their own marriage therefore qualifies them to help other couples, (married or not), through what they've experienced...... I'm glad to see the word "some" in bold. I would not be of the some because I would not be happy if my wife cheated. Not in my world. It's me or nothing.
Moose Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 So let me understand Happily married and they cheated. Wow , the vow in marriage must have changed abit. Is the affair part before or after " In sickness and In health"?Look, just because marriages encounter these things doesn't mean that it can't be repaired, even strengthened.....
Trialbyfire Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Cyberspace mirrors real life... When many are playing in the same sandbox, with only one toy available, there will always be an individual who feels they own that sandbox.
Art_Critic Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I must have hit a nerve. It was my observation, whether it be you or anyone else it does not change the fact that happy married couples have no interest in Affair forums. What is your interest in this affair forum ?..
troutie jr Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Look, just because marriages encounter these things doesn't mean that it can't be repaired, even strengthened..... That all depends on how one views themself and what they are prepared to take back. There are alot of single people in the world and should my wife cheat there would be no second chances.
cokeexhibit Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Well, there are those that kick sand in others faces and reclaim the sandbox. And the sandbox is thankful
cokeexhibit Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 That all depends on how one views themself and what they are prepared to take back. There are alot of single people in the world and should my wife cheat there would be no second chances.[/QUO Strengthen? Or a hidden fracture
troutie jr Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 What is your interest in this affair forum ?.. I have an Assistant who had is in an affair. Her work was suffering which of course affected my business. She gave me a little insight into her problem and asked me to come here and read her story. I'm still following her thread.
milx Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Highs and lows? Oh. I tell you, with my situation.... a lot of highs!!! I can't keep up with the highs. I like that I can get the highs from both of them!
Moose Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 That all depends on how one views themself and what they are prepared to take back. There are alot of single people in the world and should my wife cheat there would be no second chances.[/QUO Strengthen? Or a hidden fractureBoy....you're really a nuisance aren't you? Hidden fracture......don't think so. It's now clear to me that you haven't a clue what a REAL marriage is....
Art_Critic Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I have an Assistant who had is in an affair. Her work was suffering which of course affected my business. She gave me a little insight into her problem and asked me to come here and read her story. I'm still following her thread. You are here for other reasons than your marriage ?.. So are other posters... Some of us that post are not here posting because our marriage is unhappy.. I happen to post on occasion in the OW/MM forum to enlighten OW what it is like to be the child of a cheater ( when I was growing up ).. My advice is always given from the child's perspective.. It also helps me continue to keep my childhood in perspective
cokeexhibit Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Boy....you're really a nuisance aren't you? Hidden fracture......don't think so. It's now clear to me that you haven't a clue what a REAL marriage is.... I noticed you have used REAL in bold print. So again my question is where is Affair/ cheating in the wedding vows. Before or after " In sickness and In health." So to have a REAL marriage a H or a W says " you know what honey , we need to be strength go have an affair" Thats a riot.
cokeexhibit Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Boy....you're really a nuisance aren't you? Hidden fracture......don't think so. It's now clear to me that you haven't a clue what a REAL marriage is.... I'm an nuisance? Well, that wasnt nice. But I guess you havent looked over to the left have you
troutie jr Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 You are here for other reasons than your marriage ?.. So are other posters... Some of us that post are not here posting because our marriage is unhappy.. I happen to post on occasion in the OW/MM forum to enlighten OW what it is like to be the child of a cheater ( when I was growing up ).. My advice is always given from the child's perspective.. It also helps me continue to keep my childhood in perspective I am not married. I gave my reasons why I came here. I also gave my opinion where I do not think happy married couples frequent an Affair forum. I'd sooner be doing something with my wife if I were married. If people took offense to that, it's not my problem it's theirs. I'm not making a big deal out of it. I just gave my opinion. Take it or leave it.
troutie jr Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Boy....you're really a nuisance aren't you? Hidden fracture......don't think so. It's now clear to me that you haven't a clue what a REAL marriage is.... I may not know about marriage at this point, but I am pretty good at knowing what REAL love is, and that does not include cheating. If marriage includes cheating, I guess that's why I am single
blasterm1970 Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Seriously why are so many feathers ruffled by that comment? If you have your reasons for coming here and you feel it is justified that you spend your whole life glued to this forum, who cares what other people think.Some people spend their lives locked in a room collecting toe nail clippings or shrunken heads. There is no accounting for people's strange passtimes. If you have a pathetic hobbie, be proud.
milx Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I may not know about marriage at this point, but I am pretty good at knowing what REAL love is, and that does not include cheating. If marriage includes cheating, I guess that's why I am single Take it from my MW and MM. Both of them don't know what REAL love it. Got me thinking. Maybe they need me to help them find REAL love.
Moose Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 You both missing the whole point, (or you just don't care). There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. People grow, people change, things happen...... That doesn't mean resolve isn't possible.
troutie jr Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Seriously why are so many feathers ruffled by that comment? If you have your reasons for coming here and you feel it is justified that you spend your whole life glued to this forum, who cares what other people think.Some people spend their lives locked in a room collecting toe nail clippings or shrunken heads. There is no accounting for people's strange passtimes. If you have a pathetic hobbie, be proud. I save thongs and I'm damn proud of that hobby! Time well spent :lmao:
milx Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Why the frown? Aren't too happy with what everyone has to say? It is their opinion. It's how they see things. Just like how I like my sandwiches. Some may not like too many meat in between two breads.... but my oh my..... I love my meats in between 2 breads. Eapecially if one bread is Italian and the other Wheat......
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