WonderingWTD Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 This is probably gross but the other day i accidently farted in front of him . He just laughed but idk if that was too far. Weve lived together for a while now and i still hid it when i go to the bathroom, am i just paranoid? Some girls wont even be around their guy w/o makeup. And hate to be naked around him. Im not that extreme, i just dont want him to think im gross or something idk. So.. paranoid? or just a girly girl?
Star Gazer Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I'm starting to wonder the same thing - how comfortable is too comfortable? I think you almost need to be perfectly comfortable strutting around naked in front of one another, and having your BF see you fresh out of the shower sans makeup. My BF and I have only been together a month, and I'm totally comfortable in this regard. So comfortable that somehow we're already perfectly comfortable talking about our bodily functions, yet we still hide them from each other. Actually, I got really mad at him the other day when he just walked in as I was peeing - he thought it was funny, I was slightly embarrassed. However, I will not be farting or burping around him, no matter what. I think it's straight up rude to make someone else smell your gaseous odors. Accidental is one thing, but to willingly let one slip is another.
Stereogram Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 It's funny, I was in a 5 year relationship with a girl and I NEVER farted around her. I've burped and left some pretty nasty smells in the bathroom...but never farted. I've never walked in on her while she was peeing either. And regarding makeup...if we are really into the girl...we like seeing them no matter what state they are in. Dare I say, I almost found it cute when my ex had the flu and her hair looked like a haystack.
shadowplay Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I'm starting to wonder the same thing - how comfortable is too comfortable? I think you almost need to be perfectly comfortable strutting around naked in front of one another, and having your BF see you fresh out of the shower sans makeup. My BF and I have only been together a month, and I'm totally comfortable in this regard. So comfortable that somehow we're already perfectly comfortable talking about our bodily functions, yet we still hide them from each other. Actually, I got really mad at him the other day when he just walked in as I was peeing - he thought it was funny, I was slightly embarrassed. However, I will not be farting or burping around him, no matter what. I think it's straight up rude to make someone else smell your gaseous odors. Accidental is one thing, but to willingly let one slip is another. Did you leave the bathroom door unlocked? Or did the knob not have a lock?
Krytie TV Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I think you all worry too much. I can't imagine a real man being offended by any of those things. They're natural body functions and not something I've never done. I wonder what kind of men women meet that make them feel this way.
norajane Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 This is probably gross but the other day i accidently farted in front of him . He just laughed but idk if that was too far. Weve lived together for a while now and i still hid it when i go to the bathroom, am i just paranoid? Some girls wont even be around their guy w/o makeup. And hate to be naked around him. Im not that extreme, i just dont want him to think im gross or something idk. So.. paranoid? or just a girly girl? I'm pretty sure he's aware that you fart, poop, and pee. I don't think it comes as a surprise. If it slips out accidentally, what can you do but laugh? It's hardly the end of the world, and if you're already living together, he's not going to become less attracted to you just because you did something that 100% of humans do.
AriaIncognito Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I dont fart in front of bfs but I do burp in front of them lol. I dont know, burping is fun. I figure if I can't be myself, then what fun is the relationship. I happen to love burping, I dont know why. I know it's not girly but all bfs i've had have always laughed at it and then felt free to do it right along. Of course this isn't something I do in public, just at home or in the car or something private lol.
Woggle Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 If you didn't fart you would eventually explode so I am sure he realizes you have bodily functions. Most men really don't care about this sort of thing and I doubt he is even thinking about it at all right now.
katienc Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I don't know but I don't fart or burp on purpose in front of guys. I hate it when guys do it in front of me. Gah......... my ex would fart, burp, smell up the bathroom without opening the window, breathe loudly, chew with his mouth open... I find this nasty. He sure didn't do those things before moving in together.
Author WonderingWTD Posted October 29, 2007 Author Posted October 29, 2007 i have burped around him but i cant imagine farting and thinking its ok and hes not thinking "thats gross" do any of you guys care?
Ocean-Blue Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Funny, I'm wondering about this myself. My bf will be visiting me in the near future...we'll be sharing the same space for a bit...I have no idea how I'll deal with the bathroom stuff. He's farted in front of me on a few occasions (all loud but odorless - thank God). I have yet to return the favour. Frankly, I'd be mortified if it ever happened (in the near future anyway). It's silly to worry about such things, but I do! I mean I'm comfortable enough (like Star Gazer) talking about whatever...but it actually happening is an entirely different thing. I guess the whole "lady" bs is too deeply ingrained in my head. Mind you, with my ex (with whom I was w/ for a LONG time), I felt very comfortable. So maybe it's just a matter of time?
popey Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 being human, cannot be TOO COMFORTABLE. Remeber, nobody likes a girl who "thinks her **** don't stink!"
Teacher's Pet Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 I dont fart in front of bfs but I do burp in front of them lol. I dont know, burping is fun. I figure if I can't be myself, then what fun is the relationship. I happen to love burping, I dont know why. I know it's not girly but all bfs i've had have always laughed at it and then felt free to do it right along. Of course this isn't something I do in public, just at home or in the car or something private lol. Hey! I've heard you belt out a few. -tp nice!
Lee725 Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 All my relationships over the years .. NO WAY would i openly fart in front of them. I have been told i did it in my sleep... talk about embarassed considering i was asleep on the lounge room floor with his family sitting on the seats behind me......... OMG! I think there are some things that a girl should not do. open farting ......in my opinion is just that little bit to comfortable.
Author WonderingWTD Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 I think there are some things that a girl should not do. open farting ......in my opinion is just that little bit to comfortable. agreed lee725.
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