OhSnap13 Posted October 28, 2007 Posted October 28, 2007 So basically this guy asked me out, dated me for a day. Then says he's not ready for a relationship and that he was having second thoughts. Today I find out he asked out another girl and they are dating and this girl happens to be my ex-best friend. What makes it worse is I thought it would last because when we hung out he was all filrty and such and normally I dont like many guys. So shoudl I be mad at him or her for that matter or no?
Lyssa Posted October 28, 2007 Posted October 28, 2007 It's okay for feeling a bit pissed off with him but I wouldn't ponder on it for long. Maybe your ex-best friend is giving him more than what he asked for so he went for her. Some girls are easy, some are not. He's probably with her because he isn't looking for anything long term. Don't sweat on it - there are other guys out there!
wreckedhorse Posted October 28, 2007 Posted October 28, 2007 it's fine to be angry, but in seriousness, let the steam out and then move on. he went out with you for a day, not a week, a month, a year. he probably told you he's not ready for a relationship (with you) to avoid a mess. your ex-best friend doesn't owe you anything, unless this thing is what has caused her ex status, just because you went out on a date with this guy. whatever he's looking for, apparently you're not it. but that's ok, because think of all the people in the world you wouldn't date or be compatible with. then think of the people you can now meet who will be compatible. so ok, be angry, but then move on and sets your sights on someone else.
Amy22 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 it's fine to be angry, but in seriousness, let the steam out and then move on. he went out with you for a day, not a week, a month, a year. he probably told you he's not ready for a relationship (with you) to avoid a mess. your ex-best friend doesn't owe you anything, unless this thing is what has caused her ex status, just because you went out on a date with this guy. whatever he's looking for, apparently you're not it. but that's ok, because think of all the people in the world you wouldn't date or be compatible with. then think of the people you can now meet who will be compatible. so ok, be angry, but then move on and sets your sights on someone else. I agree with wrecked horse
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