MrsHellnoFire Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 because of his wealth atty said its only logical and in his best interest to settle. he bought us a home to live in but keeps it in one of his corporations names. he gives me money to pay bills, but never a set amount and never enough to cover everything. if he gets nasty atty will get order for him to pay for 24hour body gaurd service. i guess we will see. do you think he will call me when he gets served at work? my attys retainer is >$20K is that normal? This is scary. You expect that just because you got pregnant with his child, you are entitled to living off of him like a parasite. Free shelter, food and all expenses paid? wow You are not even in a real relationship with him and expect 100% of YOUR lifestyle footed by him. Sounds like you are all relying on some browbeating and pressure. Depends on how one reacts to those forces. If this comes out, I don't think his wife would be able to chalk this up. We are talking about him having an affair, getting another woman pregnant, hiding that from her, then thereafter having the mistress live in one of his houses and paying for most expenses. Too many deep betrayals to overlook. So how will the wife take it? Most likely react in a ballistic manner. I don't mind seeing the world crumbling down in this guy's life. But I am concerned about the other victims involved, and your self-righteousness and entitlement issues.
child_of_isis Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I don't think W is going to see it this way. Maybe in the beginning when D-day hits. But I think she will go into attack mode. Wives of prominent men are used to women targeting their H. It becomes part of W's job to protect him and to get him out of messes. She is going to see this OW as a goldigger and try to destroy her. And MM will let her. Never underestimate the power a W wields in a M. Even though MM's try to convince OW's otherwise. My advice to this OW...do not, under any circumstances piss this W off. She is already going to be pissed. If played properly, you can keep her anger directed at MM. Just don't do anything to further her anger toward you. Get the hell away from MM and stay away. Get a job if you are not working. Lay low. Don't push your child on to the extended family. The only choice you have in this matter is to follow W's lead. We are talking about him having an affair, getting another woman pregnant, hiding that from her, then thereafter having the mistress live in one of his houses and paying for most expenses. Too many deep betrayals to overlook. So how will the wife take it? Most likely react in a ballistic manner. I don't mind seeing the world crumbling down in this guy's life. But I am concerned about the other victims involved, and your self-righteousness and entitlement issues.
greengoddess Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 another ow telling stories. I guess lying comes so naturally when you have to deceive every day. In this thread she says she is 53 and has always been a kept woman. What a life. I really doubt this is a 53 year old with a one year old. More fantasy. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t112389/
Author pjean Posted October 30, 2007 Author Posted October 30, 2007 another ow telling stories. I guess lying comes so naturally when you have to deceive every day. In this thread she says she is 53 and has always been a kept woman. What a life. I really doubt this is a 53 year old with a one year old. More fantasy. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t112389/ I never give all my information that could identify me as correct. I have too much at risk too risk someone discovering my true identity or that of my MM. So, I apologize if that offends you. But, I must protect my family. This situation is true and real. I use general terms for age, time frames, etc. to keep things from being too personal.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I never give all my information that could identify me as correct. I have too much at risk too risk someone discovering my true identity or that of my MM. So, I apologize if that offends you. But, I must protect my family. This situation is true and real. I use general terms for age, time frames, etc. to keep things from being too personal. Hmm.. 53.. isn't that somewhere around Lizzie's age? They are probably one of the same or this is one fat lie. Having a baby in her fifties.. interesting.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I don't think W is going to see it this way. Maybe in the beginning when D-day hits. But I think she will go into attack mode. Wives of prominent men are used to women targeting their H. It becomes part of W's job to protect him and to get him out of messes. She is going to see this OW as a goldigger and try to destroy her. And MM will let her. Never underestimate the power a W wields in a M. Even though MM's try to convince OW's otherwise. My advice to this OW...do not, under any circumstances piss this W off. She is already going to be pissed. If played properly, you can keep her anger directed at MM. Just don't do anything to further her anger toward you. Get the hell away from MM and stay away. Get a job if you are not working. Lay low. Don't push your child on to the extended family. The only choice you have in this matter is to follow W's lead. I bet her lawyer is advising her to remain unemployed so that it looks like she is completely reliant on this mm.
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