ajolie1982 Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I really don't know where this is spose to be posted at but i jsut want to get this off my chest . I was engaged to who i thought was my best friend , my soul mate , the person everyone waits for but I was wrong ( i think ) . We've been together for almost 3 years and have built a family together. He became a daddy to my 4 year old daughter. We got engaged on April 14th of this year .Now we've had our problems. And I gave him a second chance when he told me that he was living with another girl before he met me and was still doing so up till Febuary 15th of this year . Yeah I felt supid as hell but i loved him and wanted to keep our family together. Everything was going great I got my dress and plained to be married at the end of November of this year . Then Twon nights about at like 3 am in the morning a girl started to text me about how they have been together for 5 years and were getting married too! No her story doesn't seem to have any truth to it . To many hole but I called the wedding off because I don't feel like I can trust him. And now my life is all up side down . I have no clue what to do any more
norajane Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 You've been together for 3 years, but he'd been living with another woman up until Feb of this year and you had no idea?? Didn't you EVER go to his place in all that time? What you have to do now is forget him. He's a liar, a cheater, and a loser. He is not your soul mate, nor is he even a friend. Friends don't pull that sh*t, and someone who loves you doesn't pull that sh*t. Count your blessings - if you had married him, you'd have eventually found out he was a cheater because he would have lied and cheated again. You don't need your daughter around that kind of guy. He is toxic and you are soooo much better off without him. Give yourself some time to heal your heart, and then start fresh.
Author ajolie1982 Posted October 28, 2007 Author Posted October 28, 2007 Thank you for your kind words .... I didn't know cause he'd take me to his dad to hang and said that he stayed there and yeah his fam lied for him
norajane Posted October 28, 2007 Posted October 28, 2007 Thank you for your kind words .... I didn't know cause he'd take me to his dad to hang and said that he stayed there and yeah his fam lied for him Guess the apple doesn't fall from the tree if his family lied for him You deserve much better than this jerk! Keep reminding yourself of that - you deserve much, much better, and you will find it.
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