spookie Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Surprisingly enough, it hasn't happened yet. We go to the same university, all our classes are in the same building complex, and yet I've only seen him once since we broke up 7 months ago. He was walking by himself on the other side of the street. I did a double take to make sure it was him and then I nervously chewed all my nails off. But what happens if we walk into each other one day? For three years we were each other's favorite people. We were like twins, soulmates, peas in a pod. And then it all unraveled. Hurtful things were done and said. He hurt me implicitly - stringing me along, making me feel crazy, lying through his teeth about what he wanted. A couple months into NC, which he finally initiated by failing to *ever* call me back one night (but this was after I asked him not talk to me several times, only to go back on what I said), I sent him a mean, immature email. It was well-deserved, I thought and still think. But after all the facts, can we be civil to each other? If I run into him, do I: 1. Smile demurely and nod in his direction? 2. Stop and make small chat? 3. Ignore? 4. Scream **** YOU at the top of my lungs? I don't want him back as a boyfriend but BOY do I miss him as a friend.
Ocean-Blue Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Surprisingly enough, it hasn't happened yet. We go to the same university, all our classes are in the same building complex, and yet I've only seen him once since we broke up 7 months ago. He was walking by himself on the other side of the street. I did a double take to make sure it was him and then I nervously chewed all my nails off. But what happens if we walk into each other one day? For three years we were each other's favorite people. We were like twins, soulmates, peas in a pod. And then it all unraveled. Hurtful things were done and said. He hurt me implicitly - stringing me along, making me feel crazy, lying through his teeth about what he wanted. A couple months into NC, which he finally initiated by failing to *ever* call me back one night (but this was after I asked him not talk to me several times, only to go back on what I said), I sent him a mean, immature email. It was well-deserved, I thought and still think. But after all the facts, can we be civil to each other? If I run into him, do I: 1. Smile demurely and nod in his direction? 2. Stop and make small chat? 3. Ignore? 4. Scream **** YOU at the top of my lungs? I don't want him back as a boyfriend but BOY do I miss him as a friend. 1 is your best bet. Just smile and nod. He doesn't need more than that. Shows him you've gotten over his sorry a$$ and you don't need to talk to him anymore.
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