fabulousgal Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I had a super 2nd date with someone, he wants a third tomorrow! It was great it really was. However, I was so sad today over my ex. I was thinking, look I have someone who is available and wants to see me and is excited...yet I am wondering why the ambigious ex has done what he's done and hasn't stepped forth. The ex even threw himself back in the picture after I made attempts to walk away most recently. Yes, I weakened when this happened. I just figured I could move on regardless, and whatever he does he does...since I am dating others and he's not the center of my universe. I go back and forth with this though. Why though, do we focus on the person who is isn't meeting our needs for the ones that make themselves available and really try? I chalk it up to my hopes with the ex, that make it so hard just to 100% forget because I had all of these fantasies of a relationship blooming. Sigh.
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