Rowen Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 THIS IS AN OFFSHOOT of my other text i got the otther night! "you're quitting your job?" Now she just sent one saying "purposely ignoring me?" WHAT DO I DO! I can't mess up again.
johan Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I'd like to help, but I don't know much about your situation. My basic advice in situations like this is talk to her if you want to. But don't expect anything.
Author Rowen Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Yeah.... she has initiated all contact except one time since we broke up.... it seems as though she wants to talk... i just don't know what to do. I love her and do want her back... but she's sensative emotionally to stuff like this.......
Author Rowen Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Alright well I just sent " I enjoy talking to you, ive just found it hard lately, and ive needed this past week to get going on some things like my job.. I hope you understand"
wowIlose Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Next time don't respond during the same day and don't show weakness of you missing her or needing her, even if you truly do. Pretend to move on and she might just come back, if you pretend long enough you will eventually move on. Win/Win
Blurple Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Why don't you simply ask her whats on her mind? nuff said. then tell her you cant be friends with her.. this way you leave it open but make her only way of contact with you is to talk about your relationship. which is weather or not your going to get back together
Author Rowen Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Next time don't respond during the same day and don't show weakness of you missing her or needing her, even if you truly do. Pretend to move on and she might just come back, if you pretend long enough you will eventually move on. Win/Win Well she first asked me about my job on wednesday.. i didnt respond and didnt plan to . Until she said today "are you perposely ignoring me" so i responded a couple hours later. She didn't respond tonight. As for the other comment about asking her whats on her mind... thats tough becuase when i have int he past she just ignores it and says shes fine.
Blurple Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Okay then stop being her lap dog.. dont jump at her when she beckons you... just stop have respect for yourself.. you wont lose her if you dont respond. GIRLS LIKE TO CHASE you need to figure out if shes just a girl or a woman you can respect
Author Rowen Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Alright easier said than done. Il try my best. I'm getting stronger by the day.
Author Rowen Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Right now, she needs to mature about the situation draasically before I can talk to her seriously.. she just doesn't open up at all, even though I did before. That's fine.. il just play cool, ive had significent changes in my personality and outlook since this happend.. so she can see them and decide. She obviously misses me if she cares if i contact her or not.
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