norby117 Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I posted a while ago and got responses that made me feel like such a loser! BUT 4 months on I'm still a mess so I am trying to get your help again. My bloke of 6 years left me without saying anything - he has lived in my flat for 2 years, sponged off me all the time and has taken expenisive belongings of mine with him! He has been working away from home and packed a suitcase when I wasn't at home and walked. NC from him since he took his case (I've tried to talk to him and be amicable but he hasn't responded) -4 months ago, and i still have the majority of his belongings in my flat, last night I emailed him and told him I was dumping/selling it unless he let me know he wanted it back still NC. He told people we were over and I recently heard he went away for 6 wks to Greece - on EXACTLY the same holiday we shared - with a new girl 14 yrs younger than him! OK I know it's OVER! and, even though I really miss him, and stupidly would take him back, but what do I do with his stuff now- legally! He has about £2000 stuff of mine - that I have asked to be returned!!!! And most of the stuff he has left is worthless - personal stuff like pictures of his boy and family and sentimental stuff! 3 months on and I NEED to move on, but I cant when I open a cupboard and can't get to my stuff because his stuff is staring me in the face. I'm not sure whether he has left his stuff here because he hasn't got anywhere to put it or if he is trying to leave the door open- we were close and really loving! - We never had closure and I didn't even see he was about to leave me! The last time we saw each other he told me how strong we were and how we were a STRONG couple! HELP ME EMOTIONALLY AND LEGALLY PLEASE!
lost4ever Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Legally, You can do you want with his stuff, if you don't hate him box it up and send it to his moms, brother, girlfriends, doesn't matter...but do box it up... As for mentally, it takes time, what he did to you was aweful, but it is hard to loose someone, take it one day at a time and try not to contact him anymore....take care of yourself
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