Jeff1 Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Hi guys, i'm a newbie and i need your advice on my current situation. I work for a large firm and recently i noticed that a new girl from a different department, had started working in my section of the company. When intially saw her for the first couple of days, i was contemplating going over to talk to her but i didn't really get an opportunity because i was so busy. And also i was wondering why she was working in my area. Anyway, after three or four days i caught her looking over at me..she saw me and turned away quickly, back to her work. I finally got the courage to do the decent thing and i walked over to her and introduced myself, i got talking to her for a few minutes and we got on really well. She told me that she was working on a big project and she would be working in my area for the forseeable future. I've ran into her a few times, and we really seem to be having a laugh. I've done my homework and i'm certain that she is single. I've decided to try and get to know her a bit better at work, and with my office Christmas party coming up, i'm going to see how i get on with her. Do you think i'm right to get to know her better at work before i ask her out? Do you think that she likes me? I think i need a bit of guidance on this one guys, help!
Blue Eyed Brain Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 There is no telling if she likes you. You need to make a clear move and see how she reacts. Women can be quite clueless to a guy, until he makes it clear to her that he is interested. Are you going to wait til a Christmas party to ask her out? That's in like two months, dude. By then, other guys would have asked her out and she may not be available. If you like her, make your move. Worst she can say is no and then you move on.
Author Jeff1 Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Ok thanks, for the advice....i'll keep it in mind, i appreicate it. I'm just trying to get other people's opinions on this one, because as i've only really known her for a couple of weeks and i don't want to make a fool of myself by trying to ask her out when i've only really just met her. I'm looking for a female perspective on this one, is is right to ask her out straight away or should i still bide my time get to know her a bit better?
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