carolinaboy Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 My gf of 2 1/2 years broke up with me 4 mos ago. and starting seeing our roomie who she had been talking/flirting with prior to our breakup. Since we lived together I saw this all go down and it broke my heart. I have attempted to have hookups with girls I've met and it's been mostly unsatisfactory (ie. drunk) until last night. I'm a bartender and there was a girl at the bar who was the prettiest one there by far. I didnt do much, bought her a drink, talked to her through a mutual friend etc. at the end of the night she asks for my # and i get hers and while still at the bar she texts me various flirty messages. one of them said, "I'm with someone else, but they are far away...i'm torn cos I find you highly attractive." that was a damper, but it was hot and playful etc. we then went to the bathroom and made out. later that night i went to an afterparty and she was there and she was going to sleep in the guest bedroom and asked me to come with. thinking back on what happened to me w/ my ex, i asked her if she was serious with her bf, if she was really drunk, that she should handle her stuff and call me sometime. on the flipside, she was the first girl I thought would be worth getting to know and i've been lonely. we ended up foolin around but no sex, we started and we both had second thoughts and then we went to bed together. this morning when we woke up sober we were still kissing, went and got coffee and lunch. i want to get to know her more....but i dont know if i should call. if im even into the idea of hanging out, she's got a bf in Seattle, etc. Opinions? it seems obvious this can't really go my way, but who knows?
norajane Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 What do you want with her? A relationship? Then wait for her to break up with her bf, if she breaks up with him. Otherwise, you're just the guy she's with until she can be with her bf.
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