trevis_101 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 MY GF Said she let her guy friend kiss her n suck her boobs...but this was b4 she met me....like a year b4..after she told me this i felt like s***..i dont knw hw to respond plz help me out what should i do
Mustang Sally Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 MY GF Said she let her guy friend kiss her n suck her boobs...but this was b4 she met me....like a year b4..after she told me this i felt like s***..i dont knw hw to respond plz help me out what should i do How old are you? Is this your first girlfriend? I would advise you to try not to dwell on it. It was before she knew you...so how can you hold that against her? My advice: It can be difficult to think about a SO's sexual past. So. If you don't want to know about her sexual past, don't ask.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 How can you fault her for stuff she did before she knew you?
Author trevis_101 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 im 21 yearz old n she iz 20 ....n she had lyk 10bfz.... i love her so much......bt these things makez holes on d trust i hav for her
BlueEyedSarah Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Like others have said, why fault her for what she did before she met you and knew you? Its not like she has cheated on you.
Author trevis_101 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 How can you fault her for stuff she did before she knew you? well the she told me that guy friend tryed to kiss her recently..bt she didnt let him
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 well the she told me that guy friend tryed to kiss her recently..bt she didnt let him So she didn't cheat on you...isn't that a good thing?
BlueEyedSarah Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Its good that she didn't let him kiss her, you can trust her. I don't think she should be friends with this guy though.
Author trevis_101 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 Its good that she didn't let him kiss her, you can trust her. I don't think she should be friends with this guy though. the thing is earlier i told her i will dump her if she evr kissed another guy... so what im thinkin is she mayb lying becoz she is scared dat i mite dump her...!! wat do u guyz think???
BlueEyedSarah Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I think it sounds like you dont trust her. I think your just being jealous and insecure with this situation. Its good how she is being so honest with you. If you beleive she is the type of girl to go around kissing other guys then why are you with her?
Author trevis_101 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 well i love her so much....i want to be with her no matter what...
Jason74 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Then don't worry about it. She probably thinks you have a "past" too.
Virginia Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I can't stand the thought of my hubby having anyone else but me, when we first got together it was a problem but the longer we are together the less it crosses my mind. What you are feeling really is quite normal, despite people telling you not to worry about it they are right, what she did before you doesn't matter to her and it shouldn't matter to you but it is a normal emotion that time will solve. I also suggest you two to not discuss your sexual pasts anymore, you obviousy can not handle the information well and no matter how much you think you want to know when it comes down to it you really do not want to know what she has done with whom. No good can ever come from that knowledge.
Jack Africa Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 MY GF Said she let her guy friend kiss her n suck her boobs...but this was b4 she met me....like a year b4..after she told me this i felt like s***..i dont knw hw to respond plz help me out what should i do There was NO reason for her to tell you this EXCEPT for some cheap attention seeking from you. IT was all in the past so you have to ask yourself why she brought it up now. Attention seeking of this type is rife amongst women. Some never grow out of it. SHe is trying to contol the relationship by playing the jealousy card with you to get a reaction from you - it worked because you are upset enough to post here . You have lost this round. The way to deal with these dramatics is to smile and ignore them. I just walk away for a few days , Do not give her the reaction she wants because she will do it all again . OH, BTW if you confront her with this she will deny it and sound shocked that you could think such a thing - they all do.
Timberlane Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 the thing is earlier i told her i will dump her if she evr kissed another guy... so what im thinkin is she mayb lying becoz she is scared dat i mite dump her...!! wat do u guyz think??? First of all, learn how to compose a complete sentence using Standard English. Second, who are you to dictate such terms as "i will dump u if you evr kissed another guy."? You sound way too uptight to be dating in the first place. Here's a clue. Don't ask women you date about their sexual past if you can't handle the news. Let me tell you, you're going to appreciate a woman that has some sexual experience and skills when you meet one. Just get over the obsessing about the rest. Sheesh.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Did you tell her how many girls you've been with and what you did to all of them? Either way, it's no-one's business what you did before. It's what you do together is what counts...... make it count.
Road Rage Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Scrub her down with Clorox and then rinse well with water and you should be alright:cool:
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