baby-boo Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 i was told, that writing a list about all the bad points in my relationship will make me feel better, rather than focusing on the good things that ive lost. so here goes * he never wanted to cuddle up to me at nights... * he always made me go to his house, he would never come to mine * he physically hurt me * he never did those 'little things' for me... which are important * he always wanted to spend time with me AND his mates - never jst me * he was always very jelous and protetive * i lost alot of my mates cos i went to see him all the time * he would be angry if i chose my mates over him * he wouldnt want to talk on the phone anymore * he wasnt interested in me when i was with him anymore * HE FINISHED ME * HE BROKE MY HEART - TWICE ok... these ones are a little shalllow, but if it helps.... * he never had money to buy me anything * i always had to lend him money * he had a bit of a beer belly * he wasnt much taller than me and i cudnt wear heels with him Well... writing it didnt make me feel better... but reading it through a couple of times did... 3 weeks after the breakup and im surviving.. better than i thought i would... im proud of myself. Anyone else want to get it off your chest? Write a list.. it helps.
tasha_982 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I like the one with heels!!! OK for me: *Not showing his feelings. *Not verbally affectionate. *Made me feel like I wasn't good enough. (When I am waaaaay better *He didn't pick me over his family, and that is something I will never forgive him!!!
brothermartin Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 1.Made me feel STUPID 2.Made me feel WORRIED 3.Made me feel like THE BAD GUY 4.Made me feel DIRTY 5.Made me feel like a FAILURE And worst of all, Made me feel UNWORTHY! Your right, I dont feel any better. But I know Im none of those things. Maybe when I can stop feeling like I am, I'll feel BETTER.
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