auzzie4ever Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 hi everyone i have been flirting with this guy who works on the corner of my street for nearly a year now. i am married and he is in a 9 year relationship. i ended up not being able to cheat on my husband and told the guy so. then my husband and I who who don't have sex anymore talked and decided that we'd try and open relationship. i called guy and told him and we ended up hooking up and having sex. had a really nice night. sex twice. he held me and we cuddled. a week later the tyre on my car blow and i had to take it to his work. he came up and we talked and before he walked away he hugged me and kissed me. right in front of everyone. i was shocked and said, "gee i get a kiss and hug in front of everyone". i then walked past him and poked him in the bum. since then he waves and smiles and i do the same. BUT HE HASN'T CALLED. I want to see him again. he gave me his number ages ago. should I call him and ask him if he wants to hook up again. im told that the man is the hunter bla bla and i shouldn't call him but its driving me crazy.
compassion42 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I think that traditions are not important now. You've already gone beyond the traditional in hooking up with him and being married to someone else. Call him-it certainly won't do any harm in my opinion.
AussieChick Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 He sounds a little like a player - I hope I'm wriong - call him!! But be prepared for a player's response...I hope things work out for you. AC
Author auzzie4ever Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 thanks girls. but tell me, what is a PLAYERS RESPONSE?
Jason74 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Are you SURE your husband is okay with this? If he is and all you're doing is looking to hook up, I don't see a problem with calling him. Who turns that down?
Author auzzie4ever Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 Yeah, my husband suggested it. weird I know, but we're trying it.
peace_pipe Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 What strikes me about this thread is the blatent lack of sanctity for marriage. You already know what the RIGHT thing to do is, but instead you come here hoping to drum up support for the WRONG thing.
bigpooter Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 What's it going to hurt at this point? You've already slept with the guy and your husband has apparently given you permission to do so, however be prepared to face the music later when all the fun is over and your long term marriage is in jeopardy due to a little "slap & tickle" and regrets on all 3 of your parts. And how about the girl friend in his 9 yr. relationship, I'm curious how she feels about this, or if she even knows. Your selfishness could deeply affect many peoples lives outside of your own--- Think about it. And why don't you and your husband have sex anymore? You obviously still have the drive. Is he getting it else where too? And if so, how would that make you feel?
peace_pipe Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Yeah, my husband suggested it. weird I know, but we're trying it. You are a married couple who elicits the behavior of dating. I guess I don't understand the point of even being married then, unless you are very insecure and selfish.
Krytie TV Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 You are a married couple who elicits the behavior of dating. I guess I don't understand the point of even being married then, unless you are very insecure and selfish. That's rather judgmental. Maybe you don't understand their situation.
peace_pipe Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 That's rather judgmental. Maybe you don't understand their situation. Well then, please enlighten me. Perhaps you have a different concept of marriage than the one that has been in practice for 100's of years.
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