Ladyjane14 Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Any suggestions on how to get the complete honest truth out of a cheater? You've got all "the truth" you need in terms of whether she's cheating or not. She is. The question now is... What do you ultimately want to see happen here? Do you want to try to save the relationship, or do you want to move on? This is the most immediate choice before you. And YOU are the one who needs to make it. She's not the one who's in charge of YOUR life... you are. So, what is it that YOU want?
truckerwife Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 I'm sorry for what you are going through, but she is definitely cheating on you. I myself was cheated on by my fiance a month ago while he was at school. We are working things out and I'm dealing with the betrayal. You have decide what is best for you and your daughter. There are way too many signs that point to her deception. The fact that she is defensive about the situation proves she has something to hide. Rent a car and watch her for a couple of days. Take photos of the things that you don't approve of and confront her with them.
GreenEyedLady Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Ever cheat on someone? No I have never cheated on anyone and I wouldn't...not my style...I'd just leave if it came to that...
GreenEyedLady Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Get it right bish, she still is an OW and in her fantacyland she doesn't share her MM with anyone! You still didn't get it right honey...
jj2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 You still didn't get it right honey... I see you are still dreaming... You say I still didn't get it right so are you now admitting to sharing? Maybe you will come back to reality someday dear.
Cobra_X30 Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 she was IMing him making plans for them to have sex. Asking him if anything were to happen between them how many people would know. If he had a condom just in case. How many people at their work knew about them making out and such. I confronted her about the convo and she said it was just a joke. I dont know what to do with this girl, I love her very much. She will not be completely honest with me about the situation for anything. She said she promised to stop doing the things she was doing because she didnt want to lose me. But I dont believe she will. Any suggestions on how to get the complete honest truth out of a cheater? A joke? A JOKE? You have to be kidding me! The fact that you let her off the hook for saying that to you is a joke! Listen, why on earth should she tell you the truth. She doesnt have to. She has no respect for you! Mostly because you dont seem to have any respect for yourself. Nobody is going to fix this for you! You have to stand up and be strong. Dont take her crap. No I have never cheated on anyone and I wouldn't...not my style...I'd just leave if it came to that... GEL, my point was not so much that you have or have not cheated. The idea was to understand your underwear selection is not an indicator of anything. The OP's wife on the other hand is a different story! It is nice to hear you take personal loyalties seriously!
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