Mandy5 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Hey everyone, i have posted before about my story with my ex. just a recap we broke up about 2 and a half months ago now,and he started dating someone else right away, while he said he still wanted me back..and blah blah, and so i went NC, andi have been ever since. Until yesterday i got a text from one of my friends, who knows my ex, and she asked me if iknew about him and his gf getting engaged? obviously i dont know, because i haven't talked to him and i blocked him on everything, so anyways, the next day i decided to e-mail my ex and ask him about this engagement. So i send him an e-mail saying " so i hear you are engaged? just wondering if thats true" and that wasi t...and no reponse... until today i check my facebook, and theres a private message from not him..but his GF! and it is saying " whatever happens between me and mike isNONE of your business, just to make that clear" and i got so mad, because first of al i dont tlakto them, and i dont even k now thse girl and she is messaging me. so i messaged her back,and said itsn othing to do with her, and i have done nothing wrong. and basically she said i am nosy, and i should back off, and all this crap. ITsso frustrating, i try and forget about everything iw as diong such a good job, but then something liket his happens. Everyone just seems so immature. my ex is 22, youd think he would be a little more mature about the situation and e-mail me back instead of getting his new 18 year old gf to message me back. Shouldi just go NC again? i guess thatsthebest bet, its just frustrating that he wont even respond to me . oh well. any responses would be awesome:)
jerbear Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 22 is still young. 18 is young. I'll say mark this one as possible when their maturity reaches a few more years. Just let it go, not really worth dealing with in-mature people or those that can't handle it themselves.
Lee725 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Yes. Go NC again. You were doing so well the first time. People normally only get really defensive when they have their own issues to contend with. If she is sending you messages clearly she feels threatened by you... and considering it is the first time you have broken NC she jumped straight away, i dare say not all is well in "paradise". (for them). Let them dig their own hole. She was probably so insecure that she begged for the ring and he prob gave into her to shut her up! .. after all they have only been seeing each other 2.5 Mths.
spookie Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Go NC again and forget about these morons. They're 18 and 22 and have been together 2.5 months after he left you for her? They're gonna need a lot of luck to make it last longer than a couple more months. And how trashy of her to message you instead of talking to him about what's bothering her in their relationship. Don't sweat it girl. You're better than this crap.
Author Mandy5 Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 thanks for your replies..it really helps hearing other peoples opinions:) I know Idont need him anymore, but just little things i miss about him, and i hate knowing he is with someone else. But back to NC for me, and hopefully things will get easier.. I can't wait to find some guy that wont leave me and things will work out:)
funkybassplayer Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 a while back my ex's new b/f sent me an email saying i called him!! did i hell, i have never spoke to him or seen him in my life, and am in l/c with the ex. my relationship was long distance. He lived on her doorstep. Anyway, he could see my numbers as he emailed me through my website. I was polite and replyed not me. Anyway a few weeks later, i saw ex back on dating site. I would say in your situ, that she feels threatend, but to be honest it is really thier buissness any way and he would tell you if he wanted to. but the best thing for you, is to be the bigger person, dont attack back, and their parth will reveal it self nautraly. altough it may not make a difference to your life one way or the other.
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