Dating - assistance from guys needed

[dumpedbutnotbroken]

So from being dumped about 4months ago, getting back on the dating scene all be it slowly. I have no desire to rush into anything or be rushed into anything.

 

Ok to see someone just once a week? This is what I would like and have time for

 

How long to wait for having sex? Am comfortable with sex and never will be pushed into anything but have similar drive to a guy

 

Wait for a call after first date, even if you like the guy? as to say let him chase because I have read that guys prefer it this way

 

Any red flags I should watch out for? Coming onto strong, wanting to see you so soon (like next day after date), doing too much, doing too little, gifts, lovey words soon into dating

[yippkiyay]

I prefer girls that make me wait a few weeks for sex it lets me know they are not a slut. Chances are I won't continue to have sex with you if it happends right away. Then again the last girl I was with made me wait a few weeks but I found out she was still in touch a couple guys she used to date. And not just periodically. I'm not sure about the dynamics of that. For me it put pressure on me to act a certain way or she would run back to him. In the end it ruined things. Maybe thats my jealousy or maybe shes promiscuous I'm still trying to fiigure that out. Fact is first fight she had a week later had him sleep over. she says nothing happend.

[brothermartin]

Don't worry, we will come to you.

 

We always do.(sigh) Once that starts to happen, you'll start to learn what to do and what not to do.

[FormerNiceGuy]

My advice is this.

 

When it comes to matters like this, go with what you feel is right. There is no right time. The right time is when you feel like it.

 

Period.

[bigheartkindsoul]

I hear what your saying but there are dating, I don't wanna say rules but preferable ways to do things right???

 

I guess also I am a little warey, after being hurt although over the break up.