EnigmaXOXO Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 This will be the last time I respond to either of you unless you apologize. Holy cow! The Amazon woman does have a sensitive girly side! Theresa, I don’t care whether you live under a bridge or not ... I still loved your post, and believe it or not, I “get” ya. Come to think of it ... that's almost feels scary.
Star Gazer Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Look Star Gazer, I don't know what's wrong with you or why you keep misquoting me, but I'm not going to argue with you over whether or not the events in my life are actually happening or not. I'm sorry, then why DID you ARGUE with me in your response? This will be the last time I respond to either of you unless you apologize. So scared! "Smack this girl down?" I was angry when I wrote the title. So sue me. I didn't mean it literally, and I'm sorry you couldn't figure that out without me telling you. No, seriously, it's a very funny title. I'm sure it garnered all the ATTENTION you wanted it to. Work lunches = essentially "He's in love with me, I know it!"? I never said that he was in love with me. I just said that he liked me. Maybe in your delusional world that's the same thing, but it's sure not in mine. Has he used to words "I really like you"? Or "I'd really like to get to know you better"? Or ANYTHING to that effect? NO! Born again virgin better than her employee skank? Again, I was obviously angry. But the girl, again obviously, does not have the same morals as me or she wouldn't be flirting with that guy so obviously or hanging out with him after hours. How are her morals any different from yours? Aren't you both doing the same exact thing? Having NON ROMANTIC lunches and engaging in WORK RELATED phone calls? Are those behaviors immoral? Really? If so, why are you yourself immoral? Ask HR's opinion for help in "smacking the girl down" to get the guy? I didn't say that at all. I said I wanted HR's opinion on the situation to see who was wrong. I don't even know where you got that from. ...to ask "who was wrong" in getting this dude's attention. Leave HR out of your childish jealousy. Like I said, you can both either apologize or talk to yourselves. I don't care either way. Hiiiiiiii jcster!!!
Author Theresa Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 Holy cow! The Amazon woman does have a sensitive girly side! Theresa, I don’t care whether you live under a bridge or not ... I still loved your post, and believe it or not, I “get” ya. Come to think of it ... that's almost feels scary. Thanks Enigma. Well, sort of .
Cobra_X30 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I'm sorry, then why DID you ARGUE with me in your response? SG, your obviously wrong and completely Crazy!! (Sarcasm Intended)
jcster Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Hiiiiiiii jcster!!! Hey there SG!! I think the OP just fired us!
Author Theresa Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 So there's just no way my guy could like me??? Even if you all are right and we haven't really been on a date yet, and all of what he's done would be done by any coworker, maybe he just hasn't made his move yet. This was one of my last posts before this thread got hijacked. Does anyone have any thoughts?
Jason74 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I KNEW this was too much of a coincidence! All, I posted a question just like this on the "Singles and Dating" section of Yahoo Answers, except from my perspective. Ok, I posted it a few times. The first time was a a couple of days ago and said that the other manager, who I've been calling "Mary", was an obnoxious born again Christian who told "Anne," the girl I like, that she's a "born again virgin." (Anne really is a virgin because of the religion she was raised in.) Someone from there suggested that this forum would be able to give more detailed answers, so I came over here like a dope. Then I got a "violation" notice from YA and had to set up a new account. So I reposted my question without the religion detail thinking that that's what caused the violation. Anyway, I think this narrows down to one of three possibilites: 1) Some kid is messing with all of us 2) This really is a coincidence 3) Somehow, some way, "Mary" found out about the original question. She was at my office a few days ago and spent some time in my office alone. I hope to hell that's not what's really going on. Either way it's time for "Theresa" to come clean before I think that I know know the real reason why someone couldn't get me her preliminary EOM reports to me on time.
Jason74 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Oh, and Theresa: THERE IS NO WAY HE LIKES YOU. LEAVE. THEM. ALONE.
Star Gazer Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Either way it's time for "Theresa" to come clean before I think that I know know the real reason why someone couldn't get me her preliminary EOM reports to me on time.
Jason74 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Star Gazer, I guess I should be thanking you for calling this fool out.
Kasan Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Well sounds like Theresa could be a "born again" stalker.:eek:
Jason74 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 That's cool. If she is she'll soon be born again unemployed.
jcster Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Either way it's time for "Theresa" to come clean before I think that I know know the real reason why someone couldn't get me her preliminary EOM reports to me on time. Whoa....OK, I think I called it, then....crazy! Wow, Jason74, you certainly weren't exaggerating in your previous post!
jcster Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Either way it's time for "Theresa" to come clean before I think that I know know the real reason why someone couldn't get me her preliminary EOM reports to me on time. Whoa....OK, I think I called it, then....crazy! Wow, Jason74, you certainly weren't exaggerating in your previous post!
compassion42 Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 This is so bizarre. And notice who hasn't shown up on the thread since Jason came on the scene? Hmmmmm......
Jason74 Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 No kidding. I'm thinking it has to be some kid messing with us (in which case he probably knows he's caught) or it's that woman I work with. I'm kind of hoping it's the second one now. If it is, I can prove she's nuts by printing this thread and she'll probably be looking for a job by Monday afternoon. That would be awesome because that solves "Anne's" problem and I can take care of myself.
blueberry sundae Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I1) Taking a coworker to lunch on your expense account 2) Having coworker help organize an excursion for the whole staff, and then going with employees and coworker 3) Taking an ex-coworker to lunch 4) Accepting ex-coworker's invitation to go to a bar where all of your friends are going to be with another coworker there as "chaperone" 5) Going to lunch as friends 6) Going out on a date Don't forget that we've done 1-4, and its not a huge leap from there to 5 & 6. OK, well you've got this all figured out. Why are you on here posting? Post on here when you two lovebirds get engaged.
blueberry sundae Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Hey, Jason 74, who is cuter, Teresa or the coworker she wants to metaphorically smackdown? Also, do you think this guy is interested in this other coworker or not? Does Teresa have reason to be worried?
Jason74 Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 You mean assuming that Teresa's the woman who's been harrassing the girl I'm interested in? I'm sure there are guys out there that would find "Teresa" attractive, and I guess she is kinda cute in her way. I'm just not interested in her, that's all. If Teresa's not the same woman who works for my company, then its kind of hard to tell. This Teresa sounds pretty paranoid, and it could be that this poor waitress is just haplessly answering the phone and trying to help the guy out. I'm not even convinced that Teresa really knows that the two of them hang out, much less that they're seeing each other. I'll go back and reread the whole thing later today and see if I can come up with a stronger opinion.
Lyssa Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 After all the threads that I have read, I'm not surprised if this is real. This is more real than some of what I have read!
Replicant Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Replicant: All I meant was that sometimes I know that he'll have opted to be the onsite manager on different shifts some weeks, and the girl will be like "I wonder why he hasn't called?" That's because he's told me he will or won't be in. There have also been times when he's gone out of town and she didn't know, so they can't be all that close. First off you are not acting professionally, he is relaying his information because it is his job to, not because he needs to confide in you because it's a step towards marriage! Doesn't matter if you believe your thoughts of 'I was made for lovin you' at least in the end vision through your pink spectacles will be seeing same color as your slip. I think you would be vindictive in any scenario ending not to your pre-conceived wishes either towards him or this other girl. If he bangs you in the managers office, then says 'thanks! it was just lunch', he's actually dating the other girl and god forbid! likes her! or he blows you right off saying he has no desire to date you. You'll be running to the HR office with your tail on fire, lighting up some drama to even the score. But there is no score to even, they've done nothing to you.
popey Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I have to admit, I was leaning towards a kidd messin with us. just seemed so hard to believe that this could be a genuine functioning adult talking here. COME ON "THERESA"... come clean.
Lyssa Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I think this thread should be renamed.. "Is it time to smack "Theresa" down??"
Kamille Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Inconsistency number one: If she is so religious, then God will ensure that everyone gets their due. Not her. Inconsistency number two: If she is so sure he's into her, then why does she feel threatened by the other woman?
Author Theresa Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 I can't believe I came here for help and I've been ridiculed laughed at and called a liar. Kamille, God wants us to do things for ourselves sometimes too. I don't know what religion you are that says that God will do everything for you, but it's obviously the wrong religion and I hope you get the light of Jesus in your life soon. Same thing with men. How many husbands have you seen deeply in love with their wives that still cheat on them? But if the wife had simply taken care of her husband and kept an eye on him, then he wouldn't have to go outside the home. popey, I don't have anything clean to come about. Replicant, I stand by what I said. It's actually not his job to tell me what his schedule is. He runs his restaurant, I run mine. The other area managers sure don't tell me when they'll be in. And since he tells me his schedule and not that girl that tells me that he wants me to know when he's around and not her. Maybe she's the "stalker" did that ever occur to anyone?? Jason I don't know what your problem is, but you're obviously misunderstanding the situation. I hope you realize the mistake you're making when you "reread the whole thing later today." I'm sure we're all dying to know your opinion. Compassion, I didn't show up on the thread because I had to go to work and then I spent time with my kids this morning. Not all of us work 9-5 Monday through Friday. Just like now I checked my email and came here, and then have to go right back out again.
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