Snowkitty Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 ok so I live in Northern Ireland and my boyfriend lives in Canada. I met him online in March... went to visit him in June and October and am going back in January. Although we haven't spent that much time physically together (about 5 weeks in total), we are insanely in love. I'm moving over there in January 2009 to be with him and we are going to get married. We have been through a lot of the same experiences, have the same sense of humour... he is basically the male version of me. We are perfect for each other in every way. My issue is this: what if he finds someone better? I mean we go 3 months at a time without seeing each other although we talk at least once a day. But I can't help worrying that he might find someone prettier, funnier... just better. I know he loves me, but he might find a girl he loves more. He's that guy you see at a party who is surrounded by peopele, and making them all laugh. I suppose I am like that too really, but he is just... well, "cool" I suppose. I don't really see myself as deserving of him either, he is STUNNING. Like one of those people you HATE because they are sooooooooo gorgeous!!! Girls throw themselves at him. I trust him and know he would cheat on me ever, but I can't help thinking there are more girls out there who are cooler than me who deserve Jake. His main ex too, he still talks to her regularly and she is HOTT!!! She is even a Suicide Girl. I know my self esteem isn't great and all that... but am I just being paranoid??
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 If you think this way (not to mention, you've only known each other a reeeeeally short time), why are you already planning on getting married? o_O
dancinggal Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Count yourself lucky! My boyfriend is amazingly good looking too, and not only that, but he's a really nice and funny guy, so of course has a bunch of girls following him (including an ex, who I've never met, but I know wants him back). You have to have faith that he feels the same way about you that you do about him. He wouldn't be doing this with you if he wasn't really, really crazily in love with you. I sometimes feel the same way, I get worried that some amazingly gorgeous, funny sweet girl will cross his path and he'll forget all about me, and I'll mention to my boy, and he'll say he has the same fears about me meeting some guy! You just have to trust that things will work out, and that you guys are right for each other. But in case you are wondering, its perfectly normal to feel that way.
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