picklejuice24 Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I was in a 4 and a half year relationship. the last six months we seemed to drift apart. so we mutaul agreed to split up. She lived in my house so had to find her own place. After about three weeks without her it opened my eyes into what I was doing wrong in the relationship. I approached her in getting back together and she told me she needed time and space to sort things out. I tried to give her time and space on numerous occasions. Sometimes I would ruin it myself by contacting her. Then when I finally could go 2 to 3 weeks she calls me to stop by to see the dog or some other excuse and gets me thinking she coming around. Then I call text or email her , she answers and we talk for sometimes an hour but when I ask her to do something she tells me shes not comfortable with that. What gives? Its now been 3 months of talking then not talking she tells me te leave her alone for awhile. What is she looking for? Why not try again after putting in 4 and a half years? She tells me shes afraid to get hurt again I'm not there yet .She recently explained to me she needs to take care of things in her life like bills and possible career change since she is not happy in that situation either. I tell myself I will know when I have given it enough time. I go out meet women but take it no further. I am just afraid by the time she sorts things out I may have met that one better but right now I dont think there is one better. We connected on so many levels. Shes 30 and needs to realize this isn't the same as dating tin ur younger twenties its a bit harder now. Peace thanks for any feedback.
Lee725 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Hi, You said in your post that she is afraid to get hurt again.. what did you do to hurt her the first time? What was happening that made you feel like you were drifting apart? Just out of curiosity is there an age difference between you?
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