Road Rage Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 Whatever, I try to be poetic every now and then. Hey, I ain`t talking anything ugh well, you know here, There ought to be someone standing up for the homely girls in the world. He is ignoring them to concentrate on this hottie. A guy should be more openminded than that. One day I may be canonized:cool:
Author almosthere Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 Thanks to both of you. Yea, I know I need to open up some, but don't feel it's totally necessary till she breaks up, is it?
Author almosthere Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 I am 17 btw. She just turned 18.
Author almosthere Posted October 29, 2007 Author Posted October 29, 2007 Monday, October 29, 2007 Today may have been very, very good, but I stress may. Not because any breakthroughs happened between me and Kayla, BUT MAYBE between her and her boyfriend. Remember how I said he was at her locker EVERY day for a few weeks? Well unless he was absent, I have good news. He didn't show up at her locker! Now, I was at my locker later than usual, at a time where they are usually walking out. But she was just at her locker. She was looking my way, either at me, or for him down the hall. I hope it was the former. BUT, I did not see her go out to her car right away, so she may have been waiting for him and he showed up. I also have a sneaking suspicion that one of the girls I told may have told Kayla. I don't know why, but I have that feeling...I HOPE I AM RIGHT!!!
Habs009 Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 Hi AT, **long time reader, 1st time poster. Great site for advice** I stumbled on your thread, and you sound a lot like me in high school so, I thought I d give a few thoughts. First, like RR said you need to take her down from this pedestal, your getting WAY to nervous around her and its stopping your progress. And, as you know, those feelings are meaningless if your to nervous to express them and I'd also like to know why exactly you feel that way if you've never even dated? As Ali said, the relationships are not a big deal with a high school age girl, so thats a non-issue. Dont under any circumstances have someone else tell her you like her. It makes you look like a punk, to put it nicely. What do you care what I or anyone else thinks she is attractive or not? Do you really like her or do you just want arm candy and higher status cause she's the hottest at your school? It sounds like you have similar intrests, so why are you claming up? Honestly, you sound like you just need some more confidence when dealing with her. She sounds like she responds real well to confident men, maybe you left something out but this current boyfriend sounds like a typical a**hole to me who has nothing else going for him other than confidence in himself, and you two seem to be able to get along real well so there's nothing standing in your way cept you. Finally, always try to remeber that confidence can only come from expierence and risk is an inherent part of expierence. Good luck and Keep updating
Jack Africa Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 Dude, you are not "Almosthere" You ain't even close. Jack's Rules for dating - 1. You are the man and You are the prize - not her. 2, Never put a woman on a pedestal- never, ever ! 3. Never put all your interest in one women- they sense it real quick and you will be used and discarded. You need some more ladies to play with, my man. 4. Remember this - hot chicks have options- they are popular with the guys . THAT is why they all want to be HOT. 5. Hot chicks are NEVER attracted to wussbags . HOT chicks will throw a wussy a few crumbs to keep him orbiting around BUT hotties like CONFIDENT aloof guys. 6. Never do what a hottie wants you to do. Never give in or go along with their wants or whims . Hotties "test" guys endlessly to see who will jump thru hoops. If you jump, you fail their test. Finally - get this up in neon lights. Get a life apart from women not because of them.
Author almosthere Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 Tuesday, October 30, 2007 College visit for me, no school...
Author almosthere Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 Wednesday, October 31, 2007 Some really interesting developments today. In religion class we switched seats. Previously I was two rows to her left and a tad ahead of her. I now have a much better seat. I sit in the front of a side row...and she is right behind me. The one girl who knows I like her was trying not to smile when he assigned the seats. Even weirder in religion class was this...The teacher said to the class "Everyone has secrets that no one knows, they may love someone and others have no clue" then he said to me "Jon is a mystery, Devon is a mystery" etc. But it's so damn weird how he used ME as an example, though I am sure as hell he has no clue about my whole situation. I kept a straight face luckily, which is surprising because I laugh/smile quite easily. Then something else happened, or you could say didn't happen. Remember how for a week or two he came to her locker everyday? Well the last two days he has not (don't know about yesterday). Furthermore, unlike Monday she came right out to her car and left. So that means she was not waiting for him to any extent. Actually, (she is 2 spots from me-just like at our lockers) we backed out at the EXACT same time and it was perfectly in sync. It is kinda weird how all this stuff is happening. I am not superstitious or whatever but now it IS weird. Next to each other in one class. Across from each other (one table in between) at lunch. Lockers one away from each other. Parking spots one away from each other. Like the stars are aligning. And now I sound like a huge fag. Also, I know some of you will say to find out if she is still dating and ask her out if not. But my plan is still to ask her to a basketball game. And that is not for at least a little while now, like a few weeks. AND ONE OTHER THING. This one kid that really likes her, and according to other girls is apparently pretty "attractive" gave her a hug like he often does at the beginning of our one class. She gave him one and smiled or whatever but eventually he asked her to go out somewhere and to the mall. After no real reply he asked again "Do you want to join us?" is what he said. She said "How will I get home?" He said he would take her home. She laughed and that was that. Those things are what I mean when I say I don't think she likes when guys straight up hit on her and ask her out like that.
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