chimera Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Around 2 months ago, we bumped into this friend of her that coincidentally is on her myspace, i asked her who that guy, she just told me a friend, i said ok. The other day she was being jealous at me for no reason, so i told her she have a picture of her friend on her web, carring in her arms and another one saying "what a night, hope for other nights like that" and asked her if he were just a friend or they were more than that, she started giggling and not answering me, i kept persistent as she didnt wanted to tell me nothing and just telling me u love u and all that ****. At the end of the arguing she admitted they had something and it was very complex... I felt she lied to me! and i got really mad, since she was going to invite the guy for her birthday party, since he called her and they talked a bit. I confronted her that night but personally, when i asked her why she lied the first time, she kinda laughed, i got so mad that i was gonna leave forever, she went running to the door to stop me and she started to cry asking me not to leave and she would tell me the story. The guy was supposedly a good friend of her ex, he told her about the ex cheating etc, when she broke up, this guy and her dated around a month and there were some kisses, she then told him to stop dating and at the end, they ended as friends... even tho she told me all that in tears and she begged for my forgiveness i still don't believe her, don't misunderstand me, im not a saint myself, but i would not invite some girl i had a past to my gf party and just claim we were friends and lie to my girl, what really hurt me is the fact that she can lie to me, we all have a past, but lying about it is no good. And the fact that she had his picture for 4 good months and took em out just a couple of days ago in her web is not a good thing neither. She claims she have never lied or will ever, but she thought it was so unimportant that wasn't worth mentioning... she have never gave me a reason to doubt, but all this little things are really annoying. Advices please.
IrishCarBomb Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 i still don't believe her, ding ding ding ding ding ding ding!!! The crying = manipulation "I'll get what I want if I turn on the tears when facing my consequences!" Don't validate her behavior by accepting her bull****. You'll do yourself and her a favor by dumping her as soon as possible. You'll avoid the drama, and she MIGHT learn not to be deceptive.
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