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Why does an ex gf want to catch up,when she lied to me & left me 10 mths ago for another guy who i cant stand & he hates us catching up as well..a very jealous bf you could say, who she has slit with a few times but always seems to go back to him.

I only just found out recently that she told him back then that " she didnt want to be with me", but this was not the reason she gave me when we split up though,this hurt me a little because we split on good terms she didnt want a long term relationship after 1 year together...i did.

Since then we have kind off been friends with plenty off ups & downs, the nc & all those things we do but when we catch up i feel really good around her & she with me also, but i can honestly say my feelings for her have died, due to all the hurt she caused me earlier this year.

Why do we try & be friends with someone who lied,played games & hurt us.

Can anyone enlighten me why we do this or am i being stupid having anything to do with her ?

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