nadiaj2727 Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Loveistragic-- I'm sorry to hear what a jerk he's been to you and is still being to you. Don't let him be a jerk to you anymore. You deserve better. Don't contact him anymore so that he has no more opportunities to treat you badly. Don't miss him because he is not worth missing, he can only offer you unhappiness. Try not to think about him and avoid doing unnecessary things on purpose that make you think of him (ex., going to his myspace page. Just tell yourself "I deserve so much more than that A*&Hole gave me and I am going to go find it." Good luck hon. ~Nadia
Author Shades of Grey Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 Patient Guy, nowhere near NV i'm afraid otherwise i'm sure it would have made a nice change to sob into my coffee with a companion. I'm sorry for what you're going through and send all good wishes. Love Is Tragic, i'm so sorry for your pain too. Especially since you never had any closure and are now having to deal with him turning his back on you. I don't know how I would be able to cope at all if I had to deal with that on top of everything else. It's a twisted comfort but I have seen MM parked outside my house a few times, I know he calls my office phone all the time, rarely speaks but I know it's him. Mostly he respects NC but he texted me at 1 minute past midnight on my birthday. It helps me to know that he hasn't forgotten me and that our relationship was real and not something that he can easily dismiss. Whether that's strange or even good for me in the long run I don't know.
imstunned Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 I don't know how I would be able to cope at all if I had to deal with that on top of everything else. It's a twisted comfort but I have seen MM parked outside my house a few times, I know he calls my office phone all the time, rarely speaks but I know it's him. Mostly he respects NC but he texted me at 1 minute past midnight on my birthday. It helps me to know that he hasn't forgotten me and that our relationship was real and not something that he can easily dismiss. Whether that's strange or even good for me in the long run I don't know. I'd DO ANYTHING to have my ex mm contact me- in any way shape or form. The fact that he hasnt, and didnt, and wont hurts like hell. Like I mean totally nothing to him. Nothing at all. It may be harder now - but in the long run I would take great comfort from the fact that he still contacts you. I know I would. xx
Author Shades of Grey Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 I'd DO ANYTHING to have my ex mm contact me- in any way shape or form. The fact that he hasnt, and didnt, and wont hurts like hell. Like I mean totally nothing to him. Nothing at all. It may be harder now - but in the long run I would take great comfort from the fact that he still contacts you. I know I would. xx I wish I could say something to you to make you feel better. You didn't deserve ANY of this and I truely truely feel for you. Your MM's behaviour is beyond comprehension. I don't think that there is anything that he could say to you that could ever excuse it. I'm so sorry that you are suffering so much xx
PoshPrincess Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I'd DO ANYTHING to have my ex mm contact me- in any way shape or form. The fact that he hasnt, and didnt, and wont hurts like hell. Like I mean totally nothing to him. Nothing at all. It may be harder now - but in the long run I would take great comfort from the fact that he still contacts you. I know I would. xx I am SO with you there, ImStunned! I always found it easier to ignore MM when he was still trying to contact me. Maybe that's just a bit warped though! Shades, I am so sorry for what you're going through and really do feel for you. I am all cried out now and have been for a long time but I am by no means over exMM and it has been well over a year. I am desperate to get him out of my head once and for all and it drives me crazy but I suppose we will both get there one day. I have been on anti-ds since September 06 and they have definitely helped a little. I don't feel that constant despair that I felt 16 months ago, that's for sure! Hang in there! x
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