sao2 Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I couldn't help myself. I sent an email, nothing major, Just wishing her and her family well. She is visiting extended family in San Diego this month and so with the fires I thought . . . oh whatever, there will always be an excuse . . .
Spinderella Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Nevermind, it doesnt change anything. For the better or the worst. Its still over, and you still have to get over her. I'm being blunt, but matter of fact. I dont know your story, but, whatever it is, you still need to let it go.
Bosiell Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Try not beat yourself up about it now. Its done and dusted, it was genuine and nice email anyway. But it does depend on what you are expecting or hoping to get out of it??
funkybassplayer Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 broke no contact! listen to those words, you make it sound like a crime! No contact..........a thing that is very hard and sometimes pointless between 2 people who once ment the world to each other. Always say what you have to, as long as its nice and your not doing it out of need for a reply. 1
Author sao2 Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 Thanks for the words of support. I am not expecting a response, at the same time it is just confusing. I do wish her the best and I know it is difficult for her. At the same time part of being broken up is not sharing good and bad stuff with each other. Ugh . . . It is all just so confusing sometimes . . .
Bosiell Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Ugh . . . It is all just so confusing sometimes . . . Sure is my friend..
Author sao2 Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 It really isn't about me, the whole point of sending an email was to recognize what she is going through along with all the other people in the San Diego area. I wish all that have homes there the best.
funkybassplayer Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 you sound like you have to justify yourself, this could be cos deep down you did it for a responce, otherwise you would never have felt the need to ask for an opinion. what im saying is that if its true and done with love, you will feel good about it. Whatever though the words you send, your sending good wishes which are always good, and b/c 2 people are not romanticly involved, they are still very important, and she will know you care. Its cool mate to show you care.
Author sao2 Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 I didn't post to justify myself or ask for opinions. Rather I am trying to keep no contact and I post to keep myself honest about it. I am glad I sent it though. Thanks
funkybassplayer Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 appologys! anything sent with good intention is good. IF more people did hat instead of being bitter, the world may be a little better place!!
Spinderella Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I always like your posts funkybass. Its so true.
Author sao2 Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 So She called . . . thanked me for the email. We talked for like an hour. It was really nice. No talk of getting back together or why things went bad before. Just a nice chat about our lives. I let her know that I would like to keep hearing from her and she seemed open to it but unable to say when that might happen. Basically I told her I would let her take the lead on things. It is hard but I have to trust that if she wants to talk to me she will call. She knows I still want to try and she is still recovering from her trip and therefore is not ready to make such a statement. We will see where things go. I am hopeful, scared, and excited at the same time. Pressure is off of me though, I get to be single and if we go back to being something I will make sure that it is a something that fulfills my needs.
blueberry sundae Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 I am truly sorry but she obviouslyl just isn't that into you. Leave her alone.
Author sao2 Posted October 27, 2007 Author Posted October 27, 2007 You may be right, but I'm going to see how this plays out. It is all on her for now.
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