ls707 Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Well recently I was dating this girl only for it to come to a fast halt. Whopping 3 months of it; I just laughed at it. She was dating me whilst her long term bf was left hanging on the ropes on and off. Such experiences have thought me well in the past. Yes i seem to have the knack of finding the drama queens/ gold diggers/ cheater/ whores/ etc....frankly i have become impervious to it all. I felt something different for this girl until my discovery of her long term bf. She claimed that I was her "spark" whilst he was her "sorrow" after I found out about him. I kept wondering why why why ...do people do this and with what kind of heart and face can some one even wake up in the morning and actually face themselves and others and esp. their partners . Oh well I was pretty level headed in my response; I just let it go; she keeps trying to call me and tell me its not over (countless messages received). she wants to make it up to me and keeps telling me all these things about "I broke up with him" etc..etc..."he doesnt mean as much to me as you do to me"; apparently she feels "comfortable" "protected" and "secure" when shes in my presence. ZZZZZZzzzzz. All i can think of is that poor unsuspecting dude that got cheated on, and me for being an idiot and not seeing it. Part of me wants to give her a chance, Cuz i thought i felt something; but i feel like it will amount to nothing in the end...what do you guys think? give her a chance or just drop her.....think people can change?
oppath Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 So she wasn't broken up with him? Or was he just trying to get her back for a couple months? Either way, I'd drop her like yesterdays news into the recycling bin. She hid this person from your life, and he was apparently an active part in it. She was therefore leading you to believe she was available when she was not fully. She withheld information from you that could allow you to make an informed decision about your life. That is no way to begin a relationship. Unless...all the stuff with him was before you were exclusive. Did you become bf/gf? Did she drop him then? If she was in any way involved with him while dating and screwing you, other than through friends of friends or the occasional email, or if she didn't tell you "I just broke up with ex bf a few weeks ago" when you started dating, I'd drop her.
Author ls707 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 So she wasn't broken up with him? Or was he just trying to get her back for a couple months? Either way, I'd drop her like yesterdays news into the recycling bin. She hid this person from your life, and he was apparently an active part in it. She was therefore leading you to believe she was available when she was not fully. She withheld information from you that could allow you to make an informed decision about your life. That is no way to begin a relationship. Unless...all the stuff with him was before you were exclusive. Did you become bf/gf? Did she drop him then? If she was in any way involved with him while dating and screwing you, other than through friends of friends or the occasional email, or if she didn't tell you "I just broke up with ex bf a few weeks ago" when you started dating, I'd drop her. yes she was still bf/gf with this other guy; after she made the decision to be my gf. Funny how that works :$. She withheld information from me; and that was the plain and simple fact. She never dropped him; i actually ended up talking to him a few days ago; and he got all upset with me; I said forget it you can have her and let it go Funny thing is shes still calling me as though she thinks she has a chance :$ I stll have some lingering feelings for her; but I think they will diminish in time; afterall she just strikes me as a manipulative individual.
Jack Africa Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I stll have some lingering feelings for her; but I think they will diminish in time; afterall she just strikes me as a manipulative individual. Yes, you will have some lingering feeling because you were her B/f ( Well you THOUGHT you were ) This 'woman" lacks INTEGRITY - she cheated on her B/f for some attention and fun with you. Also - if she will do IT with you, she will do it TO you. Flick her - permanently.
bish Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Part of me wants to give her a chance, Cuz i thought i felt something; but i feel like it will amount to nothing in the end...what do you guys think? give her a chance or just drop her.....think people can change? Drop her. She's a cheater. She doesn't deserve a chance.
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