buu Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 I went to a wedding out of town about a month ago with my wife. My mother in Law was in the wedding so she had to go as well. During the rehearsal I asked her was her husband here and she told me he decided not to come. At the reception I saw my mother n law’s ex husband there as well. I didn’t think much about it till we all got back to the hotel. As we are walking across the parking lot my mother n law tells us that she is not staying there tonight. (yet she made reservations for the room) her ex husband pulls up and she gets in the car and they drive off. I was a little shocked to see her actions this blatant and how she flaunts her affairs in front of her family. And I know that they were not just going to hang out and talk at 11 pm. My wife belives that they are just good friends and nothing more. I have not spoken with my wife about it because it is her mother after all. They talk all the time and she‘s pretty much is her best friend. My wife did tell me that they were going through some problems and that most of these problems were intentionally started by my mother-n- law just to see what she can do. I am looking at her in a different light now and I am seeing how much of a master manipulator she is. I see a messy divorce coming sooner or later and its going to affect us one way or another. I really feel sorry for her husband because he don’t even know the other guy is still in her life. I wanna talk to my wife about this but I feel that it is not my place to say anything. But the whole situation don’t sit well with me at all. Should I even say something about this? Or should I just let it go?
JosieMcCoy Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 OMG! How do you know they didn't just talk? What's the dirty proof? Cheers!
Author buu Posted October 24, 2007 Author Posted October 24, 2007 OMG! How do you know they didn't just talk? What's the dirty proof? Cheers! because she would not call the next morning asking one of us to drive her car to the other hotel so she could change clothes. And I'm not that clueless
Cobra_X30 Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Buu, You need to talk to you wife and only your wife about this. Tell her your suspicions and why. Maybe let her know that you do not think this kind of behavior is acceptable. But leave the choice and the action to your wife. Its her family!
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