bigheartkindsoul Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 Just curious, I am the dumpee. I went NC once my stuff had been collected from outside his place and then about two days after that so about 4days after the break - 4months ago. I will not be contacting him, because of the way he cruely broke up with me but I am scared of the day he gets in touch with me, not sure I will be able to cope with it and think it might totally throw me off course. Any thoughts? BTW - he is blocked and deleted from MSN and my own email account any emails go straight to the delete box, but of course I can still see them if they came. Also I was dumped by text so can be 99% sure he would not call if got in contact at all.
yippkiyay Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 Do you have the strength to change youur number and email addresses? does he know where you live now? do you have mutual friends? You see I think you are wrestling more with your urge to contact him rather then worrying about him contacting you. what are you looking at your junk mail for? curiosity killed the cat
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 Do you have the strength to change youur number and email addresses? does he know where you live now? do you have mutual friends? You see I think you are wrestling more with your urge to contact him rather then worrying about him contacting you. what are you looking at your junk mail for? curiosity killed the cat No I def not wrestling with wanting to get in touch with him, I just won't do it. Luckily we do not have any mutual friends, which has been a blessing, he does know where I live, I cannot change my email as I have had it for 5yrs and do alot of my own personal business things through. But I will look into now and do some sums on how much would need to be changed or altered to a change of address, so thank you for the suggestion I always look at my junk mail, spam mail, always have in all my accounts - mail I am referring too is outlook so is very easy to see unread items etc. Prob just need to forget about the fear, always been one to worry before an event and with any luck this is one that won't happen. Thank you for coming back to me BHKS x
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