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Define: The difference between SEX and making love!

Mr. Romantic

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Scrivdog Established Member

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Sex is what you want.

Making love is what you say you want.

Trialbyfire Established Member

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Germans should stick to cars and beer.

 

It doesn't get any more romantic than this:

 

Explain one thing. Why is a man asking that question, over and over again?

tanbark813 Established Member

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Explain one thing. Why is a man asking that question, over and over again?

 

Gays are people too, TBF. Tsk, tsk.

Trialbyfire Established Member

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Gays are people too, TBF. Tsk, tsk.

Oh...forgive me...I thought he wanted a woman to analyze him.

tanbark813 Established Member

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Oh...forgive me...I thought he wanted a woman to analyze him.

 

He just wants to be loved (in the butt).

underpants Established Member

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Oh Tanny,

 

You are so naughty. (you and someone else :laugh:)

 

That video has put me in the 'hall of shame' of worst songs ever. I am a proud title owner and I owe it all to LS.

 

LS and Jesus. Mad props.

 

I don't want to have sex or make love to any specifc song. It really is a feeling and interaction/connection with someone else ...and circumstaces.

 

Now just to make things on an even keel of disturbing...

 

 

Space Hawt...

Ocean-Blue Established Member

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Oh Tanny,

 

You are so naughty. (you and someone else :laugh:)

 

That video has put me in the 'hall of shame' of worst songs ever. I am a proud title owner and I owe it all to LS.

 

LS and Jesus. Mad props.

 

I don't want to have sex or make love to any specifc song. It really is a feeling and interaction/connection with someone else ...and circumstaces.

 

Now just to make things on an even keel of disturbing...

 

 

Space Hawt...

 

Since we're being romantic and all...

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dC0IAyUnCfA

underpants Established Member

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Since we're being romantic and all...

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dC0IAyUnCfA

 

 

Oh no,

 

OB, you are too young to be so jaded.

 

I had to turn away at the sight of cockroaches. (gay porn, fine, roaches and strange things...aaaaaghhh). Just me.

 

I am tempted to break out a strange and unusual song. Maybe not though. I will sleep on it.

Ocean-Blue Established Member

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Oh no,

 

OB, you are too young to be so jaded.

 

I had to turn away at the sight of cockroaches. (gay porn, fine, roaches and strange things...aaaaaghhh). Just me.

 

I am tempted to break out a strange and unusual song. Maybe not though. I will sleep on it.

 

Am I? That video struck a cord with me and I don't know why.

 

Perhaps raw sex is succumbing to our more base instincts whereas making love is an attempt to run away from our creatureliness and play gentle and nice. Who knows.

underpants Established Member

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Am I? That video struck a cord with me and I don't know why.

 

Perhaps raw sex is succumbing to our more base instincts whereas making love is an attempt to run away from our creatureliness and play gentle and nice. Who knows.

 

No, actually we both posted the same song with different videos.

 

I thought that funny. It is a very raw and sexual song. However, roaches are ...icky ...as are monkeys on crosses (I have recently discovered).

 

Here is a just a fun song, for going out.

 

http://www.rathergood.com/gaybar/

 

Turn it up really loud. :lmao:

Ocean-Blue Established Member

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No, actually we both posted the same song with different videos.

 

I thought that funny. It is a very raw and sexual song. However, roaches are ...icky ...as are monkeys on crosses (I have recently discovered).

 

Here is a just a fun song, for going out.

 

http://www.rathergood.com/gaybar/

 

Turn it up really loud. :lmao:

 

under...I posted the director's cut after I saw your post.

 

And I agree, some of the images are quite disturbing. But there's something to be said about that video... Not sure what that would be. :confused:

MrsHellnoFire Established Member

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Either way, it would be sex, not making love...

 

so is love age-restricted?

Trialbyfire Established Member

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so is love age-restricted?

How many eleven year-olds are emotionally/mentally and even physically capable of having a mature sexual relationship, regardless if it were making love or having sex?

shadowofman Established Member

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I know all of you are going to think I'm the crazy one, but I don't believe there is such a "thing" as making love.

It's all sex.

There is sex with someone you love.

And there is sex with someone that you don't.

There is sweet, gentle sex.

And there is rough, balls-to-the-wall sex.

It's like you all invented something that you don't know what it even is. Or at least there is no concensis as to what it is.

Even if there really is a difference, most of you don't act that way.

Some of you claimed that sex is just a selfish biological action like masterbation. So why do you care if your SO has "sex" with someone else? Wouldn't you just be angry if they "made love" to someone else? No! You treat them exactly the same.

Lizzie60 is the closest, except she still makes a distinction.

MrsHellnoFire Established Member

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How many eleven year-olds are emotionally/mentally and even physically capable of having a mature sexual relationship, regardless if it were making love or having sex?

 

well im sure it's happened. i dont know how many people were really emotionally or mentally ready for their first love, but that doesn't mean they didnt have one.

MrsHellnoFire Established Member

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I know all of you are going to think I'm the crazy one, but I don't believe there is such a "thing" as making love.

It's all sex.

There is sex with someone you love.

And there is sex with someone that you don't.

There is sweet, gentle sex.

And there is rough, balls-to-the-wall sex.

It's like you all invented something that you don't know what it even is. Or at least there is no concensis as to what it is.

Even if there really is a difference, most of you don't act that way.

Some of you claimed that sex is just a selfish biological action like masterbation. So why do you care if your SO has "sex" with someone else? Wouldn't you just be angry if they "made love" to someone else? No! You treat them exactly the same.

Lizzie60 is the closest, except she still makes a distinction.

 

are all sexual encounters with someone you "love" called making love? i mean, i dont know. there are some sweet sexual moments at times but also the rough do me now and in every position type of raw wild sex- which im guessing some wouldn't consider "making love" even though it is with the person you do love.

Bobby NoBrains Established Member

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Plain sex is when the emotions take the back seat, when the joining is more physical and almost unemotional.

 

Making love is when the emotions are out front and the joining of the two people is as much emotional as it is physical.

 

By emotions I mean the mature emotions of love and desire experienced by mature people, not the effervescent "love" experienced by younger people, for whom every crush is love.

 

Just my two bits ..

 

Bobby

shadowofman Established Member

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I love how adults like to put there brain chemicals on a higher level than children's chemicals. I hope you all realize that you make the same love juice that you did when you were younger. You just couldn't handle it as well.

tanbark813 Established Member

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Now just to make things on an even keel of disturbing...

 

 

Space Hawt...

 

:laugh: That was so awesome.

Mustang Sally Established Member

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I'm simple-minded.

 

To me, sex is carnal. Animalistic. Visceral.

 

Making Love is emotional. Sensual. Cerebral.

 

Of course, the two are not always mutually exclusive.

Trialbyfire Established Member

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well im sure it's happened. i dont know how many people were really emotionally or mentally ready for their first love, but that doesn't mean they didnt have one.

Could you provide some evidence of this happening? Of an emotionally/mentally/physically capable eleven year-old couple, who make love, not have sex?

 

First love is a misnomer for many people. It's confused with first lust or first romantic fantasy.

stevessvt Established Member

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Sex is a physical act

 

Making Love is having sex, but with an intense passion.

popey Established Member

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I know all of you are going to think I'm the crazy one, but I don't believe there is such a "thing" as making love.

It's all sex.

There is sex with someone you love.

And there is sex with someone that you don't.

There is sweet, gentle sex.

And there is rough, balls-to-the-wall sex.

It's like you all invented something that you don't know what it even is. Or at least there is no concensis as to what it is.

Even if there really is a difference, most of you don't act that way.

Some of you claimed that sex is just a selfish biological action like masterbation. So why do you care if your SO has "sex" with someone else? Wouldn't you just be angry if they "made love" to someone else? No! You treat them exactly the same.

Lizzie60 is the closest, except she still makes a distinction.

 

Seems like in your initial discussion you are arguing semantics, not philosphical, psychological nor biological distinctions. Unless I'm misunderstanding and you ARE asserting that sex with someone you love is/feels no different than with an insignificant. are you?

 

The bold, part on the other hand is a very interesting point. I agree, that sex w/o love is not just meaningless physicality. But i like your point for a new thread actually.

Storyrider Established Member

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Making love is the abstract emotion made physical. It is an outpouring of love through touch, and the deepest kind of touch humanly possible. At its climax, it is literally the penetrating of the other person or the consuming of the other person.

 

Sex is fuelled by lust.

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Sex is the selfish act of receiving satisfaction.

 

Making Love is the charitable act of giving satisfaction.

 

 

 

Making love: Incredible, whether it's hot/carnal, or slow/gentle/sensuous pleasure. All emotional receptors open.

 

Sex: Palls, no sharing of emotions.

 

 

 

Sex means your are operating on a purely physical level.

 

Making love implies that you are somehow engaged on an emotional level as well...

 

 

 

Sex is a mechanical act --

 

Making love involves the heart, and is a physical expression of one's love for another human being.

 

 

 

Sex is the amazing act of receiving AND giving satisfaction.

 

Making love is the amazing act of receiving AND giving satisfaction AND love.

 

 

 

Plain sex is when the emotions take the back seat, when the joining is more physical and almost unemotional.

 

Making love is when the emotions are out front and the joining of the two people is as much emotional as it is physical.

 

 

 

 

I'm sensing a pattern here.

This seems to be the consensus.

 

Agreed?

 

Although.... W says people can make love without sex...

 

as in thinking of her and buying her flowers, surprising her

with a romantic getaway for the two of you, calling her at

work to tell her how beautiful she is...

 

Thoughts?

 

 

 

People are in relationships for themselves, not the other person.

 

I almost hate to admit it, but this seems to be the most profound statement I've read in quite a while.

 

I could start a whole thread on this.

 

Bravo RR.

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