daZed&confUsed005 Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 so i have a friend..i developed having feelings over sometime this summe..thought i would give it some time and then ask her out..then found out she was going out with someone so i sort of gave up..then somehow she found out i liked her but i acted like she was wrong just so we could still be friends..then yesterday she told me that she just broke up with her boyfriend because of the age difference and stuff.. now how long should i wait to ask her out?? i will do it in a very special way and she speaks a different language and i have learned to say "I like/love you" in her language . i just don't want to lose her again.
lost4ever Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 Ask her out now, just go slower than normal... She did the breaking up so it's no big deal (I wouldn't say I love you yet)...but you seem smooth enough to know that
Lyssa Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 Go for it but hold back on the L word for a while, Eager Beaver... hehehe Seriously, ask her out and get to know more about one another. Good thing is that you both speak different languages, it would be good to learn how to speak her language!
muse27 Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 um..you might want to 'feel her out first' and see if she even sees you other than just a friend. if you were maybe just acquaintences i would say GO FOR IT! but since youre friends, you dont want to make it awkward for either party. ...when a guy tells me he likes me and i see it coming but dont feel the same..it sours the relationship.
Author daZed&confUsed005 Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 thank you so much guys..i really really appreciate it..i think i will ask her out real soon may be this weekend but yea will take it slow..note to self not to use the L word..lol..as for the chance of her turning me down it is a possibility but then i think about as to why she would tell me that she broke up with him outta the blue..and also i give a killer massage so i used it to tease/flirt a bit..and she used to be like "oh my god..ur wife is going to be the luckiest women on earth." i was thinking about asking her out and before she gave a reply let her know that if its "no" then i would still like to friends with her and forget about me ever asking her out..wat do you guys think??
Author daZed&confUsed005 Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 um..you might want to 'feel her out first' and see if she even sees you other than just a friend. if you were maybe just acquaintences i would say GO FOR IT! but since youre friends, you dont want to make it awkward for either party. ...when a guy tells me he likes me and i see it coming but dont feel the same..it sours the relationship. oh and muse..how do i tell if she likes me more than an acquaintence??
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