sedgwick Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 So here's my question to you. When you've broken up with women (or men, whatever), did you have any remorse at all, or did you just feel happy and relieved? Did you ever miss them, or even think about them? It seems so easy for men to just bail with no warning. Did you ever end a relationship where things were really good and she loved you completely and the sex was great? If so, why? And did you feel any guilt about it, or ever feel like you might have been wrong? Did it make you feel anything at all when she cried? Did you ever change your feelings for someone literally overnight?
Darkzen Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 So here's my question to you. When you've broken up with women (or men, whatever), did you have any remorse at all, or did you just feel happy and relieved? Did you ever miss them, or even think about them? It seems so easy for men to just bail with no warning. Did you ever end a relationship where things were really good and she loved you completely and the sex was great? If so, why? And did you feel any guilt about it, or ever feel like you might have been wrong? Did it make you feel anything at all when she cried? Did you ever change your feelings for someone literally overnight? No to the everything, except the last sentence... My feelings changed overnight for my ex when she chose to leave. She went from being someone I'd lay down my life for, to my enemy. Her decision to leave changed the type of person she was in my eyes, from being someone with problems to being someone that's just evil. Had she left in a different manner, I'd have just been indifferent. Her reasoning put all the blame on my shoulders unfairly, she refused to take any responsibility for her actions/decisions. Plus, she showed absolutely no remorse.
brothermartin Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Sorry SEDGE, I've never done those things and I dont know any man who has. I've talked to a few guys that SAY they have done those, but behind closed doors....
Blurple Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Sedge I would like to hear your back story... I dated a wonderful German girl over the winter.. umm sex was okay.. I loved being around her she was a super cook loved her personality ... I dumped her cuz sex was well I dont know it wasnt that great after a while and I realized I loved my ex girl friend so much I wanted her back. Everything that was missing from the relationship with the German girl was 110 better with my ex.. besides my ex worshipped me and I loved her back even more. P/S I love that tats!!!!
oppath Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 So here's my question to you. When you've broken up with women (or men, whatever), did you have any remorse at all, or did you just feel happy and relieved? Did you ever miss them, or even think about them? It seems so easy for men to just bail with no warning. Did you ever end a relationship where things were really good and she loved you completely and the sex was great? If so, why? And did you feel any guilt about it, or ever feel like you might have been wrong? Did it make you feel anything at all when she cried? Did you ever change your feelings for someone literally overnight? Yes, I've felt remorse. I feel bad that I hurt someone. I do care about them as a person. I've never felt happy. I have felt relief. Yes, I miss them, and yes, I think about them. If I make a girl cry, yes, I feel horrible. I may cry too. I've never felt I was wrong in my decision. I too have been dumped seemingly out of the blue, and she even said "I'm giving up the most amazing relationship of my life, this has nothing to do with a lack of feelings." I didn't believe her. I will always tell the girls I dump "this isn't working, I don't feel we are right together to continue this relationship." They will know I care for them deeply, but it is over. No confusion. No mixed signals. I will be there for them if they need me the next month. I will be responsive to them. They could throw angry words at me and I'm going to say "I am sorry." I will agree where I can with any criticisms they have of me.
Author sedgwick Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 Blurple -- the backstory: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t127619/ Also...how have you seen my tattoos?
Blurple Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 In your profile picture.. you looked real tatted up.. I have two motivation shoulder blade to shoulder blade and the whole armour of god below it
Curious139 Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I think in my case all my women have left me..........because I failed to commit to them. Why? I really don't know. I always felt there might be someone else who would be exactly right but never found her......or so I thought! I was always sad when they left and it was never bitter or nasty, just a fading away. I did refind the right girl last year but in difficult circumstances. I was (and still am) married but fell in love with my old girlfriend and had a deep affair. Unfortunately I was torn between doing the right thing by my wife and children, what my parents would think, societies expectations of successful marriage, against my love for this woman. I waited too long and she is gone...........which is why I'm here. Same old story - failure to take the risk and commit. History repeats.
Author sedgwick Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 Curious...when you met your wife, what was it that made you commit to her? Were you still in love with this other woman when you met her? What are you going to do now? How does your ex feel about the situation? Blurple...I forgot about that other pic! Heh. Yes, I'm pretty damn tattooed. Full sleeves, chest piece, full back piece, pinup girl going from ribs to hipbone, big piece on my calf, and getting another big piece on the other calf on Tues! I'm in Mexico and am getting tattooed by an amazing artist here. His name is Dr Lakra -- look up his work!
Blurple Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I am related to chris page who is local here. He has a big name for him in detroit, most artist i have talked to knows him
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