Author kissingchaos Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 Then I think you have a bigger issue than whether or not you and your H agree on porn. Was the timing of this related to your pregnancy or any other event in your relationship? Have you always been the "initiator"? Mr. Lucky Actually, it started when I began to show. I was around 7 months and my belly was really starting to round out. I haven't always been the initiator but I've always been the more dominant one. He's told me before that I intimidate him a little, so I back off once in a while and let him seduce me, or let him take the lead. BTW, I spoke to my H in depth about this last night and he admitted to me that it's simply the curiosity that makes him do it. (and the boobs) Which I severely lack. I already knew this though. I'm not offended at all by that. It's not like I said 'God, please give me small boobs.' It's just what nature gave me. And what science and technology can fix He was very hurt by some of the things I said, and scenarios I brought up. {eg: If it were me looking at men with 10 inch cocks.} He had the shoe on the other foot and didn't like how it fit! We came to an agreement that we would watch porn only together and he asked me if I would make my own for him. So, I agreed. I'm just hoping that he's being sincere. We'll see. Thanks for the advice. Honestly
rainfall Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 No matter how hot you are, he'll be fantasizing about other women from time to time. The question you need to be asking is whether he fantasizes about you, and if not why not? Whoa! Be careful here. You cannot equate his looking at other women, whether on the street or as a masturbatory stimulus, with being unfaithful. I defy you to find a man who's eyes don't 'wander' over the women he sees. Even if it isn't porn, it'll be some half-dressed actress on screen or a model in a Victoria's Secret catalog. This is not a constructive line of thinking. . Wow if this post is true I find that very depressing. I really hope that its not because that would just be very sad that no man could ever be 100% satisfied with his partner and would always be looking for the next hot thing to think about having sex with. Excuse me now while I go work out for the next 12 hours........
Author kissingchaos Posted October 26, 2007 Author Posted October 26, 2007 You wouldn't have that dick of yours if your momma didn't make it. So, with that being said when your dick shrivels up and doesn't work anymore, I'll still be able to have fun with anything I please One of the many benefits of being a woman.
Mr. Lucky Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Actually, it started when I began to show. I was around 7 months and my belly was really starting to round out. I haven't always been the initiator but I've always been the more dominant one. He's told me before that I intimidate him a little, so I back off once in a while and let him seduce me, or let him take the lead. BTW, I spoke to my H in depth about this last night and he admitted to me that it's simply the curiosity that makes him do it. (and the boobs) Which I severely lack. I already knew this though. I'm not offended at all by that. It's not like I said 'God, please give me small boobs.' It's just what nature gave me. And what science and technology can fix He was very hurt by some of the things I said, and scenarios I brought up. {eg: If it were me looking at men with 10 inch cocks.} He had the shoe on the other foot and didn't like how it fit! We came to an agreement that we would watch porn only together and he asked me if I would make my own for him. So, I agreed. I'm just hoping that he's being sincere. We'll see. Thanks for the advice. Honestly Congrats, KC. Always nice to hear that couples actually do sit down and talk to each other, with both sides not just listening but agreeing to meet in the middle. Hope it all continues to go well for you... Mr. Lucky
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