atownlocal Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 I am new to this, so hopefully I can find some help on here. I was dating a girl for several months and she broke up with me about a month ago. The last month of the relationship was up and down and we seemed to be lacking chemistry at times. I know she has been seeing a guy for the past two weeks and I don't think things are going to well for them right now. Last week I saw her at the local bar and she texted me the next day saying it was good to see me and ask about my weekend, but we have talked/texted since. I do want her back and given her problems with the new guy, is now the time to call/text/e-mail?
wowIlose Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 did you end up texting her back after she sent you a text? If not drop a line and say , "things been great, nice seeing you again. Lets grab a bite to eat". You can then feel her out and see if there is a possibility.
wowIlose Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 dont get your hopes up tho.... Odds are she left for a reason and won't be looking back. Your best bet is moving on with your life. sorry I just didn't want you getting your hopes up since it makes for a bigger dissapointment in the end.
Lee725 Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 Hi, If she saw you and TXT you then mayb she wants to re-initate contact. If she was happy with the new person she would not even think to TXT you - if she's seen you or not. I know with me it is hard to say sometimes exactly what i am thinking, so even by a quick txt saying "Nice to see you" it is a way back in to make contact with you. If she didnt want to talk to you she would not have done it. She might not be into this other guy at all. Sometimes people have a quick "Fling" when they break up with someone because it is easier to do that than having to deal with what has happened and to actually sit down and think about it. If you think that you can work it out with this girl TXT her back / call her. You have NOTHING to loose. I dont want to get your hopes up but, something is saying that she does not want you to go away!
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