I broke up with my boyfriend and he wants to be friends right after!

[clearnow]

Hi. I didnt want to break up with my boyfriend since I still am in love with him. But because of some incompatibilities and all, I decided I had to. Even though it was critical point of his career and is sooo busy, I told him I needed to end it.... He begged me back and apologized. I accepted his apology but told him I wasnt too sure about getting back.

 

He started acting like a boyfriend on and off ever since BUT just over the phone or chat.He kept inviting me out but I was still unsure.. So we just used the phone or chat. Boyfriend, then friend, then pretty mad.. and over again. Everytime I'd seriously ask him what is going on and If he thinks we going out, he'd change topics and avoid it and me for a day. I started 'nagging'.. and he'd stay away more saying he's busy. Thing is, now I realize I really still do love him a lot but I dont know what he is doing! I want to talk to him about it but he seems to not want to see me and just change the topic. But goes on acting like a friend and sometimes boyfriend and tell me what's going on in his daily life. I'm scared to talk straight to him out of the blue because he seems to not be ready and pretty mad. AND he doesnt want to seem to see me face to face ANYMORE, even though I ask him,which puzzles me.

 

What do I do? Why is he like this?...

[hopeforlove243]

I am related to your bf, my ex-bf broke up with me several months ago, but insists that he wants to be friends, and we can still hang out like before. It is so hard for me, every time we hang out, I would think about how could he ends our relationship, and eventually I would be very mad at him, and started yelling at him. He finally agreed that he will leave me alone, and he said he will wait for my email or text patiently. Last night I deleted his phone number, his email etc, but I am still very hurt and mad, cause I don't know what is the real reason we broke up. Anyway, your bf probably is going through the similar thing. You need to leave him alone and give him time to get over you before being friends. I don't even know if I could ever be friend with my ex-bf.