starlite Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 So- My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago, after a 2.5 year relationship. Broke my heart but I am feeling just ok. Sometimes I am very sad, others I am just fine and looking forward to working on me and being on my own. Well there is this guy who had a crush on me, but when we met I was very taken. He lives 2.5 hours away and saw on my myspace i was now single and asked for my number etc. I gave it to him and he now calls me and texts me and well, it feels kinda nice. I wont see him for 2 weeks (he is playing a show, he's in a band) and after that who knows when, I am sure he will figure something out because he really wants to take me out etc. So, considering this is kinda a bump in self esteem, happiness, excitement etc is it really just not a good time to be talking to someone I have a 'crush on' seeing as my relationship ended 2 weeks ago??? Or is it good because it makes me feel better and it will be taken very slowly considering distance, and I am not even saying I would seriously date him because I am SO not ready....
Jasmine8719 Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 "Or is it good because it makes me feel better and it will be taken very slowly considering distance, and I am not even saying I would seriously date him because I am SO not ready" exactly!...just take things slow with him and explain that to him...It will help you get over your ex and as you said it's a great confidence booster...Good Luck! -Jasmine
Author starlite Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 Thanks Jasmine! That makes me feel better..and this guy knows I just got out of a relationship too.
jcster Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 It sounds like you have a pretty good idea of where your head is at right now. Just don't jump in with both feet and you should be fine.
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