Surfer Girl Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 My story 4 months breakup. First 2.5 months NC... Then we were both at the same event... Light talk... Then at the same event I see him talking to this woman... They have lunch... I leave... See his car one afternoon at her apartment.... From what I understand they lasted about 4 weeks as I am still in NC since the event We originally met on Match... We were together 5 years... About a year ago... We split up shortly... We both had signed up for Match again during the short split.... I saw he had signed up again after our most recent breakup... So I signed up.... That year ago I let him know what my sign in name was.... I kept the same name as he did.. Well what I didn't know is once I signed in and view his profile.... He can view who viewed him.... During this current breakup... He was only active one week in these 4 months. I went off Match as I knew I was not ready to date.... I was thinking maybe he went off because he did remember my user name and saw that I had viewed him... Today I get an email from Match. Someone has e-mailed me and the same likes are exactly my ex's... I haven't been active for over 2 months...Most people when they see no activity don't respond....In order to read the email I have to subscribe again. . Well I looked to see how active he was.... Out of the 4 months this is the first he has been active.... Here is my dilema... Do I sign up ? If it is him.... Did he forget my username and thinking I am someone else or does he know it's me and reconnecting? Or am I analyzing to much and just leave it alone?
starlite Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 Well, I was thinking this before when I read another girls thread about her bf texting her saying he misses her and loves her and wants her back...And I will now verbalize my response. . . After a 5 year relationship (or in her case like 2) dont you think you deserve more than a match email...or a text. If my ex decided he couldnt be without me, you bet your butt I better be getting a phone call, if not a knock on the door, if not flowers delievered to my apartment or work. These men seem really week and if you give in, get a subscription and email him back (if it is him, which it certainly may be) you are making it way to easy on him. I would switch dating sites. Also, if he wants you back bad enough, he will contact you in a more adult manner.
Author Surfer Girl Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 To late... I had to know.... and yes it was him. Title was a ? subject-very cute and well done.... (Talking about my profile).... I have not e-mailed back.... When you don't know what to do, I say do nothing.... Quite the shock tho....
Teach28 Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 Does he know its you though? I'm a bit confused.
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