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I am married, and we have been together for about four years now. Ever since i got pregnant three years ago (he wanted children) we dont have sex anymore, it is like he is discusted with me(im not fat or ugly) he gets mad when i do want to do anything with him and he always says that he is tired. I am the type of person that wants it like three or more times a day, it makes me feel wanted i guess. He has not complimented me on ANYTHING in over two years, not even that my cooking is good. I have brought it up to him and all he will say is that i am nagging at him. He is not the person that i fell in love with.

Anyways I have been working for the company that i am at for about four months now, and i am a very flirtatious person, but in a joking way because i like to hear the comments that i get back, but there is this one guy there that is really shy and dosen't say much to anyone, and of course i have the hots for him. One day i made a comment to one of the other coworkers that he is hot, and that is when it all started. oh yea he is married too, but has never meantioned her once, no one at work even knows her name. He asked me one day if i would get offended if he staired at my butt and i said of course not, so now he always does and tells me how much he likes the color thong that i wear that day. He asked me to send him dirty pics of myself so i did and he told me the next day that they made him speachless and he loved them. He is always saying that we could have an affair (but he is shy, so i don't know if he is just joking or being serious) and beware if we ever get alone. i did not want to think that he wanted to sleep with me if it wasn't true so i asked him in an email, i'll show you what he wrote.

oh yea what he is refering to at the begining is, a coworker told me that when i left where we were working that day (he had been staring at me the whole time) he told him that he needed to get laid. hay it made me smile.

but here is what he wrote back.

 

I don't think i said that but just to let you know i

was thinking about it.about what is happening at work

it started out as just flirting but now i would have

to say if everything worked out who knows what would

happen because i do think about what we could be

doing!!just to let you know things that you have sent

me i have not told anyone and if you need ask me

something that you hear at work just ask me i will

tell you. well off to work i go i will see you next

time your in.

 

i don't know if he really wants too or if he is just saying it to be nice, can someone point me in the right direction.

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To make it short- You are insecure and need attention because your husband doesn't show you any.

 

You are seriously a slut.

 

Your husband is a jerk and is totally not interested in you anymore. Sorry.

 

The guy at work is into you and has no morals, like you, but I think you two would be great together.

 

Oh and btw, did I mention you are a slut? :D

 

Oh yeah, guys don't respect sluts so don't expect any serious long-term thing from this guy at work because he definitely looks at you as having little value. This coming from a guy, but since you obviously have no repect for youself, it shouldn't really matter should it?

 

I think thats taking it a little to the extreme. Physical relations are part of being human, and if your husband/wife isn't giving it, then its only natural to look elsewhere. Who's to say her husband isn't cheating already and thats why he hasn't slept with his wife?

 

I think its either time for you to have a serious chat with your husband, first. If nothing is resolved, you'll need to think about moving on. Lifes to short to deal with someone's bull****.

 

-SF

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