pollywag Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 That's ok. Thank you for your warm regards, I will pray a Hail Mary for you all. It's never easy losing a siblling but she is in a better place now up in pooch heaven with Jesus, Jesus the holy man not my Mexican cousin Jesus. I know...I know.... it gets confusing sometimes. Whenever I get sad thinking about it I just chew on a shoe for a while and attentively sniff my own poop and that usually makes me forget about it. My attention span has never been great.
troutie jr Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Dang, when I first dun read the title to this thread I thought it was asking if if the husband took the wife to the vet. and had her put to sleep. That happened to my sis Snowball, but she had parasites. Let's pray for Snowball, may she rest in peace...."Our father who art in heaven..." Hark the harold.....Angels sing.... Pollywag I find you quite entertaining. Whenever I see a post of yours, if you don't mind I will chase the tail. I could use much of your humor in my meetings.
pollywag Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Hark the harold.....Angels sing.... Pollywag I find you quite entertaining. Whenever I see a post of yours, if you don't mind I will chase the tail. I could use much of your humor in my meetings. Hotdiggidy damn Troutie with a bod like that one not only can you chase my tail I'll let you sniff it too. "By golly, father in heaven did I just say that outloud??" Father forgive me for my lustful thoughts. It's just that photo, it makes me want to hump the leg of the pew ..............................I must leave now I have mass in 10 minutes and I must confess all my dirty thoughts to the priest and serve my penance. Go with god my chidren, except for you Troutie you meet me after mass. Wear something hot. Like....nothing.
troutie jr Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 Hotdiggidy damn Troutie with a bod like that one not only can you chase my tail I'll let you sniff it too. "By golly, father in heaven did I just say that outloud??" Father forgive me for my lustful thoughts. It's just that photo, it makes me want to hump the leg of the pew ..............................I must leave now I have mass in 10 minutes and I must confess all my dirty thoughts to the priest and serve my penance. Go with god my chidren, except for you Troutie you meet me after mass. Wear something hot. Like....nothing. Darlin, if your "hot" and single we can exchange emails. My preference is not "really good looking" but HOT, got that
bish Posted October 26, 2007 Posted October 26, 2007 I made him choose too. I told him get D or we are through. He chose to not get a D and asking for time off, during which time he started to pursue me but I was not interested anymore, in time he ended up moving back with his W and came back looking for me and that's when I confronted his W. Hmmm...aren't you one of the many OW here that keep saying that you owe nothing to the wife?
frannie Posted October 27, 2007 Posted October 27, 2007 What kinds of things have you been told about the BS? Did it make you feel bigger than the BS? Did it make you feel sorry for the MP or the BS? I've been involved with MM for 3 and a half years. These are the things he's either told me directly (or I've absorbed from various tangental comments) about his W. I know her name, and that she's a few years younger than me, and shorter than me. I know what she does for a living, in general terms. I know her parents are alive, and how many siblings she has. I know occasional bits of news about her siblings (in that they have affected MM... visits required, etc.). I know one small piece of information about her relationship with a close family member. I didn't learn this until about 6 months ago. MM only shared it because he felt it was very relevant to our relationship and both of us are uncomfortable about that information being out there between us. We don't refer to it. I know nothing else personal about her at all. I know her birthday, because of an accident in planning MM made. I also know the date of their wedding anniversary, because it slipped out one year. I don't compare myself to her, never have and never will. I feel that their relationship could possibly be improved... I can only infer that from the snippets he gives me, and the fact that we have managed to improve our relationship. He tells me that I've taught him HOW to have a relationship... FWIW. And that's it.
jj2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Hmmm....I always wonder why it is that BS's protest so much...I know some MM are cake eaters and do still have sex etc. with their W's...but there's plenty of sexless M's too and roommate-type arrangements... And as for a man's lips touching another woman's...If you're dating a single guy, you can only guess how many other women's lips he's kissed, so what's the difference? Go ahead and try and cast doubt... Some of us have been around long enough to know better...and we actually know our partners well and have developed a good R with them... Yeah and this is coming from a girl who doesn't "share" her MM:rolleyes: I will repeat You are sharing him with his wife. Why do you think the term used is "OW" anyway? Because you are the "other woman" Pretty self explanatory don't ya think?
greengoddess Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 Hmmm....I always wonder why it is that BS's protest so much...I know some MM are cake eaters and do still have sex etc. with their W's...but there's plenty of sexless M's too and roommate-type arrangements... And as for a man's lips touching another woman's...If you're dating a single guy, you can only guess how many other women's lips he's kissed, so what's the difference? Go ahead and try and cast doubt... Some of us have been around long enough to know better...and we actually know our partners well and have developed a good R with them... I'm really confused by your posts. Maybe I am thinking of someone else but didn't your married man lie to you the whole relationship. You didn't know he was married. You didn't have history or a lifetime of knowing this man as once being honest you had lying and cheating from the start. Your whole relationship with him is based on lies and you are with him? Did you recently get back with him. I thought you dumped him when you found out he was married. You chose to start again with a man who lied to you from the beginning?
blasterm1970 Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 I'm really confused by your posts. Maybe I am thinking of someone else but didn't your married man lie to you the whole relationship. You didn't know he was married. You didn't have history or a lifetime of knowing this man as once being honest you had lying and cheating from the start. Your whole relationship with him is based on lies and you are with him? Did you recently get back with him. I thought you dumped him when you found out he was married. You chose to start again with a man who lied to you from the beginning? Interesting question the same question could be asked of you how did this pan out for you, remember when you asked this: My main question that runs through my head daily. What would be the least painful? Asking someone to leave who you are truly totally in love with and who is a great dad or staying with this man because you love him and would miss him terribly with the knowledge that you will never ever truly trust him again?How do you decide? I have been dealing with this for a year now. Affair is supposedly over. He tells me how much he loves me and our family and he wants me. He comes home to me and our kids every day.Then I find out that yes he does come home to me everyday and wes till have great sex and passion for one another but phone bill shows he has spoken with her EVERY single day 10 times a day. The only exception was our anniversary. She called him once.All this time he has been lying to me. Back to my original question. I often think it may be less painful to ask him to leave but how? How do you ask someone you are totally in love with to leave? What do you say to the kids? Do I lie and say we don't love each other anymore? I love him. I don't trust him and fear I never will. Can I continue a life with someone I do not trust?
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