HeadStrong Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 Hey ladies and gents.... First post and I've been kind of lurking for while. First step of an issue is admitting it. I'm a n00b. anyhow, wanted to say hey first and now it's on to my issue.....any help would be appreciated..... What happened with me? I'm 28 and I've always followed the rules of engagement with females, so to speak. I'm careful with my feelings, I NEVER fall too fast for for ANYONE, I guard my emotions everytime I meet someone new. This time, it took me a month to say "I love you". Where did that land me? A month and a few days later, broken up. This is the very reason why I NEVER let my emotions get the best of me. I hate being hurt and I always guard myself from this happening. But with her, it was different. Problem is, the first couple of weeks she threw up a couple red flags that my normal self would think "Whoa, be careful here." But I just lived for the moment. I just recently had gotten out of a 2 and a half year relationship that involved me losing a 2 year old that I had raised from birth. She was my life. 3 months later, I meet this girl and she shows me the love and attention that I hadn't gotten in a long time. She made me feel wanted and loved. The absolute attention to me was remarkable and I'm beginning to think this is why I "fell" so fast. Now, I'm sitting here, single again......and wondering if I should ask for reconsideration while all at the same time thinking, "hey, this probably should or could have been a rebound". I have so many mixed thoughts in my head. While all at the same time, there's a woman that is in love with me (still) and I have no problems with her feelings towards me. So I have the current situation that just broke off, wanting to stay with her because the undivided attention she showed me and then I have someone that is probably the most gorgeous girl in the world (3 kids though) that is totally in love with me that I can't have (at the moment, that's another story). Can someone possibly decipher this whole damn situation for me? I mean, help. I have to figure it out on my own, but sometimes it doesn't hurt to have a little help. What do some of you make of this?
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