Timberlane Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 Why I oughta!!!! I very dear female friend of mine just started dating a guy who apparently does not know when to shut up about all of his hot chick friends and acquaintances. My friend is extremely attractive and also quite badass in the sports she does. But she is also very critical of herself and doesn't see herself as all that pretty or special, which is sad. So the new beau has just tons of hot chicks around him at the gym and is talking about his female friends all of the time while commenting on their attractiveness. I have to admit, I get a bit tired and annoyed when the woman I am with goes on and on about this hot guy on TV and that hot movie actor. Then they make these gooey eyes and sigh. Makes me want to vomit. So all of you men and women that do this in front of your significant others, knock it the F off. Do this around your other friends when we are not there. Keep it with the porn, m'kay? And throw us a frickin' bone sometime and tell us how hot WE are ferchrissakes. You might get a bone of your OWN for that one.
yippkiyay Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 The last girl i dated when we were getting along we both commented if a good looking person walked by. It was comforting because even though we were attracted to other people we could talk about and it did not mean we had to act on those feelings. We were happy with eachother
Author Timberlane Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 And I'm sure you both did it in an understated way, right? That's fine. It's when the mugging and cooing starts that we have to just say no. "I think he's sooooo dreammmy!!!! OOOOOh!" pu-lease.
Ariadne Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 Hi, But she is also very critical of herself and doesn't see herself as all that pretty or special, which is sad. I think your friend needs to grow a thicker skin. Personally, if someone I'm with thinks this or that is hot and wants to say it I'd prefer that he does so and not be "censored" because I'd get my feelings hurt and think I'm not hot or because I'm very insecure about it. Ariadne
halfarock Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 Last Saturday I was out with my girlfriend and we ran into one of her friends. My girlfriend was talking with her friend and went on and on about how hot she thought this guy was. Oh wait, she was talking about me. Never mind.
Author Timberlane Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 Growing a thicker skin implies tolerance. So it's about just tolerating each other? What I am fecking saying is this blather is NOT conducive to getting it on with your man or woman. It's not complimentary and it's definitely not sexy. So here's part 2. My friend and her new man discuss getting Halloween costumes together. She suggests a school girl outfit to his Headmaster with a paddle. The dude immediately says, "Ooooo! I could spank all the girls at the party." Hey dumbass, aren't you going to spank the school girl first? See my point? Talking about what a hit with the other ladies you are going to be isn't so flattering.
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