bittersweet memories Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Keep on keeping on, that's the plan. Until I see papers that say it, I guess I won't completely believe he has left her, even if he is outta the house and already filed for divorce, I'm gonna keep on keeping on. But if I follow my heart, it will be back to him. Do not follow your heart..keeping using your brain. He left his wife 2 weeks ago thats nothing. If he sucks you back in you will be back to square one. Just keep on living your life and see what happens in a few months. But keep moving on with your life don't wait on him.
Author Bad_Monkey25 Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 Well like I said earlier ... You definitely helped me on a very bad day I'm sincerely glad for that
pureinheart Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Now, if he has said, "I left my wife and we've been officially divorced for 2 weeks now. What's new in your life?" Then I would suggest you call him and go out on a date. Start fresh. BUT.. That hasn't happened. He left his wife 2 weeks ago...That isn't enough time for him to have it all together and start over. 2 weeks is NOTHING. He could very well change his mind in a month or so, or she could want him back. Do yourself a big favour and tell him to call you when the papers are signed and he is officially divorced. If you go for it, you'll end up hurt again. Just some learned advice that I was not strong enough at the time to listen to....and as a matter of fact it came from WWIU which wrote almost an identical response to me when I posted almost an identical post as yours..... IF he chooses to D, it is difficult if you are with him not to get involved with it in some way....I don't know how deep he is concerning financial and other matters, although these things can be messy and hurtful. He needs time to figure out who "he" is outside of the M. The stress can be intense and difficult.... I know how tempting it is....it was for me and still is. I have been through hell and back .....
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